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by Rosie Cheeks
What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 37
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Australia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Photographer
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 23
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Zero
How long ago did this hookup happen? Five years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met him on line. He was trim but had some nice muscle developed. Dirty blond like Kurt Cobane. Tattoos, ripped jeans, a piercing in his penis. He was hot! He was dangerous. We had never met, he asked for my address and I gave it to him. He tirned up one morning and we had sex. Just one time. Before the hook up I felt excited to be desired by him.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We communicated on line for a day before the hook up. Then he asked for my address and he said he would visit the following morning. Which he did do.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I immediately led him to my bedroom and I took his top off but kept his jeans on and I photographed him in different poses on my bed because I’m a photographer. Afterwards I was already kneeling in front of him and I unzipped his pants and he was hard and had a great big piercing through his knob! I had never seen that before in real life. I licked and sucked him while he held my hair. Then he got me on my knees on the bed and fucked me and pushed a toy into my butt while be did that. We did not kiss, which I now regret.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I pretended that it never happened. But I developed the photos and pasted them into my journal along with his dick-ring which he have me. And I wrote about my experience with him.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, I was feeling lonely
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one ever.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? He was the kind of man I wouldn’t usually attract so it was fun sleeping with a different kind of man.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He never tried to contact me.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? If you are single I think it’s fine.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s cool.
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