What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Elizabeth, or Liz as she went by, had long dyed blonde hair to the middle of her back. She was a natural bruenette. She had brown eyes, nice pert kissable lips, a very nice ass, and overall a good body. We had met at a bar and I got her number. She seemed like she was super chill.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We went on a couple dates (I guess you could call them) nothing too fancy. She then suggested she come over and make a meal with me. Liz brought over a bottle of wine and we made dinner together. We watched a movie and she asked if she could stay the night. I was okay with it, and we headed to the bedroom. We ended up making out for like 20 minutes with our clothes on in bed. She let me touch her all over but didn’t really do the same back. I thought maybe she wasn’t into me at first. She then asked if I wanted to have sex. I said yes. She stripped down, I did too, then I got on top of her.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I asked if she wanted me to use a condom. She said no and that she trusted me and that I could just pull out. I pushed into her and started to fuck her deep. Again she didn’t really seem too into it. After a few minutes, she asked to get on top. She rode me on top and did circle-like movements on my cock. It felt ok for me but she seemed more into it now. She got close but never came on top. She told me she didn’t usually have an orgasm from sex but it did feel good. I had her lay down and I ate her pussy out. I fingered her g spot as I licked her clit. She got off 2 times like this and was completely out of breath. I waited for her to return the favor but she just sat on the bed. I asked if she wanted to suck me off and she said ok in an I-don’t-really-want-to way. She was horrible at giving head. She only did it for about a minute and said she had to stop cause of her jaw. I asked if I could do her doggystyle. She agreed and bent over the bed. She said not to fuck her ass to hard as it had been a while. I was a little confused as I meant I wanted to fuck her vaginally but didn’t turn down the offer. I grabbed some lube and pushed into her ass. She jumped a little as I did. I pushed her down onto the bed and grabbed her hair. I rammed her asshole hard and deep and she just grunted and moaned a bit. When I got close I didn’t even say anything I just shot my load into her waiting ass. She cleaned up and we went to bed.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We hung out a few more times. Mostly did vaginal sex after that night. She never sucked me again and we stopped talking about a week into it. She was probably one of my top worst lays. I haven’t talked to her so not sure where or how she is.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My buddy and he seemed confused since she seemed like she was built to fuck.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat
Why do you regret this hookup? Because she was terrible and it was a waste.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It ended
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It happened
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