by Ginger

Gender: Female
Age: 23
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Location: Ohio
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Stay at home mom / full time student
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? A few days ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck-Buddies/One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met him online, on the site Ashley Madison, I am married but not sexually or emotionally satisfied so I’ve been looking for someone else (go ahead and judge, I don’t mind).  He is in a serious relationship with the women of his children but he is very unhappy and is only staying because he does not want to leave his kids.  He messaged me on AM and he was funny, sweet and had bright red hair which I could not deny was gorgeous. He is a little older than me, 29 but I was excited to be with someone more experienced. We chatted and flirted via text for about two weeks before meeting. It turned out he only lived about five minutes from me so he came over one morning while my son was napping. I know that this is not the safest idea but he works for our local sheriff’s department so I felt comfortable with this. He was 6’1, thin but toned and covered in freckles. I am also a red head with many freckles so I found that even more exciting. I wasn’t sure I wanted to do anything sexual with him the first time we met so we only chatted and kissed a little.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After meeting the first time we texted a lot and decided we were ready to hook up. We sent sexy pictures back and forth to build up the anticipation. The day after we initially met he came over again in the morning while my son napped.  When he got to my house I was so excited to rip his clothes off but I contained myself to wait for him to make the first move.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As we sat on my couch nervously chatting I could sense the sexual tension, this was both our first times with someone other than our significant other and we were nervous. He casually placed his hand my knee, leaned in and kissed me. His lips were soft and lush which was a perfect fit for mine. He reached up and grabbed my breast, feeling for my nipple, when he found it I moaned. He stood and told me to lay on the couch, I obeyed and he laid on top of me. We kissed and he continued to play with my nipples which felt amazing. I whispered, let’s go to the bedroom, he stood and pulled out his cock and told me to suck it first. I tried but it was so big I had a hard time fitting it in my mouth. I gave up and pulled him into my room. He took off his shirt and pants and told me to take off my shirt. I did and then he told me to suck his cock again, still I had trouble because of its size. I told him I wanted to lay down and then he got on top of me and told me to take off my bra. He then moved his way down my body to eat me out, which thankfully he only did for a moment because I don’t enjoy it very much. As he moved his way back up my body I knew I was ready for him to fuck me. As he began to fuck me I was reminded of how big it was, it felt amazing to have such a huge hard cock in me, I never wanted it to end. It didn’t last long though, he came very hard and I was satisfied even though I did not come, I haven’t in years so I wasn’t surprised or disappointed. He continued to lay on top of me and inside of me for a few moments after he came, he kissed me and made awkward conversation but it was nice because he made me feel as though he wasn’t in a rush for it to end. As we got dressed I felt amazing. I felt desired, sexy, and full of life. I felt a sense of accomplishment, excitement, and powerfulness.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? He wore a condom and I have the IUD. We discussed STI history and we are both clean.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was lonely and horny. I wanted to experience something new with someone new. I’ve never had sex with anyone without being in a relationship with them first.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? None on my end and I’m pretty sure he was 100% sober since it was 11 in the morning.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After we got dressed we sat on my couch and chatted until my son woke up then he left to go to work. He kissed me goodbye and we said we would plan on doing it again soon. I felt excited about the experience and was looking forward to do it again.
I was hoping he and I could hook up on a regular basis. I’m not expecting for us to leave our partners and be together. I’m not looking for a new husband. I just want someone to have great sex with. We haven’t spoken since that day so I’m not sure what’s going to happen next but either way I’m happy with my decision.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A friend whom I met online. We flirt often and have phone sex a few times a week. We’ve never met but talk everyday. He was surprised I actually went through with it and wanted to know all the details on what happened. He said he was happy if I was happy.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes for both of us.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, I thought that I would considering I’m married but I don’t regret it all.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was the newness of it all, the excitement of touching, kissing and feeling someone new on top of me. The worst thing is that we haven’t talked in a few days and I just want to know if he’s done so I can move on. I’m still looking for someone to be my regular fuck buddy. Yes, this hook up has changed the way I think about casual sex. I used to think I could never do it and that I would get attached but I’m learning that sometimes sex is just sex and love is a completely different thing that has little to do with sex. I’ve learned that I’m a sexual person and I love being touched by a man. I’m trying to learn to love my body and this experience has helped me realize I am sexy and beautiful.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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