What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 40
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Iowa
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Maintenance management
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? +/-15 and growing
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 8

Hot Little Dyke

How long ago did this hookup happen? Two days ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met this girl on CL. She was looking for a man or a woman. I only had a description as petite. We agreed to meet for dinner. I had to pick her up. I didn’t have a clue what to expect or where it might lead. She got in my car and she was clearly a dyke – petite and cute, but a dyke. At this point I wasn’t expecting much.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We went on out for dinner. While having dinner, we talked for a bit and I got a feel for her situation. She brought up the fact that she’s considering turning to escorting. It really kind of surprised me and intrigued me. We finished dinner and then in the car, I asked her what she wanted to do now. She said that she didn’t have anything going on that night and said she was open to whatever. She then said that she thought that I seemed like I might be interested in her escorting. I told her I was definitely interested but that I didn’t want to put her in a situation where she felt obligated to me. She said that she had to admit that she found me genuinely attractive. I agreed to help her out a little with expectation of nothing in return. She told me she’d like to have me either way.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I had some other things to deal with that night so, I agreed to go ahead and give her the money she needed and if she was really okay with seeing me, I’d pick her up again later.

After I finished my business, I contacted her and she said she was ready. I reiterated to her that I didn’t want her to feel obligated. She said she really wanted to have me and that she would be interested in a regular thing.

We started by making out a little. Initially it was a little hard due to her look but, as the clothes came off, she was definitely becoming more feminine.

I couldn’t believe how hot she was. Her body was amazing. She was tight and toned and her breasts were wonderful to see and touch. The only thing that looked out of place was her hair. That wasn’t as noticeable once the lights were off.

I laid her back and looked her over, then went down on her. She was definitely all girl between her legs. She had very short stubble that felt good on my face as I devoured her. She really enjoyed being dined upon. I ate her for a while, occasionally kissing her so we could both enjoy her taste.

She had made it clear that anal play was off the table which was a little disappointing but, no big deal. So, I taught her how to put a condom on a guy. She was a little clumsy but, she got it.

Next, I laid her back and gently began to enter her (she had made it clear that she wanted it gentle, nothing rough). She felt very good. Her pussy was tight and wet. I asked her several times to make sure I wasn’t hurting her. She said that my dick was perfect.

The place where we were playing was not ideal and it was very difficult for us both to get comfortable. I was never able to establish a stable rhythm to make her cum. Eventually, we came to the realization she wasn’t going to be able to, so I went ahead and got off. We had been going long enough that I had built up a huge load and my balls burned that wonderful way they do after pumping out a huge load. I laid still inside her while cumming so she could feel my cock throbbing inside her, hoping she would gain a little satisfaction knowing she had done that.

Afterward I pulled out and we both cleaned up and got dressed, touching and kissing each other a little more.

The ride back to her house was good. She showed me a pic of her girlfriend (who, honestly, I hope to one day be able to get with as well). We enjoyed some open, honest conversation. We were able to talk a little during sex as well, which we both enjoy.

All in all, it was good and I’m excited about seeing her again, hopefully in a hotel room.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We’re still in touch and planning to get together soon.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, Making new friends

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone.

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? She’s beautiful and felt amazing.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Dyke look.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? None.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I enjoy having casual sex but really wish I didn’t. It’s honestly very unhealthy.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Good forum.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!