What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA/ Midwest
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Retail Sales at a LIngerie store
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Wiccan / Pagan
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Lots
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? first one
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How long ago did this hookup happen? less than 1 month ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This guy Gladen is a musician with long dark blond hair and is so sexy. He has a sexy smile broad shoulders and a tiny waist and always is sporting a nice package. He has been coming into the store I work at and is always funny and smart and when he leaves we all gush over how sweet and hot he is.
He started coming in regularly and one day he was holding a ladder for me and I just couldn’t stand it anymore and had to outright tell him that he made me wet for him.
After that, I kept teasing him but he wouldn’t do anything with me until his wife gave me the go-ahead to fuck him. We finally got to hook up and all I want is more of him even if I have to share him
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He and another girl were going out and I wanted to go along just to be with him. We went to a coffee shop and I got him to play some of his songs on stage. We spent the whole night teasing each other and all went back to his place and tried to break the bed.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started out getting wild in the coffee shop. this other girl and I made out in front of him and had our hands all over him and each other. In the car, I touched myself just to show him how wet I was and I almost made him wreck the car.
When we got to his house we both jumped all over him and he carried us both upstairs and got us both all worked up while he undressed us. He spent his time on both of us undressing us making us cum and teasing us until we were both going crazy.
We fucked each other, had oral sex with each other, and he was in and out of us for hours at a time. I ate her out and she did the same to me. We would each get it in any position and having two sets of hands and tongues all over each other was heaven. His cock was long and thick and he knew how to use it and didn’t cum for hours and hours. She got his first load all over her ass and I licked it up and then he pleased us both with his hands and mouth until he could get it up again and lasted longer and longer.
She eventually had to go home to her kid and he was all mine and we had sex everywhere in the house including the garage and outside in the cold and every bit of him was in my every hole. I loved it. I never came so much in my life. I even masturbated with his guitar so he’d think about me every time he plays it.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I wish he wasn’t married so I could have him all to myself. I hate to admit it but I’m obsessed with him. He’s funny smart and the best I ever had. That says a lot because I’ve had many both men and women.
After the hookup, he cooked me breakfast in bed and went down on me until I couldn’t stand anymore and then helped me get dressed. It really sucks that his wife is so cool or I’d break up his marriage so I could have him. I guess that makes me bad but all I think about is Gladen. I won’t ever tell him but I think I’m in love with him. He could be an evil demon and I wouldn’t care. I just smell his cologne or just see him and I drip.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Sterilization
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have, Submission / Relinquishing power, Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friends at work and they are all jealous and a few other friends.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat
Why do you regret this hookup? If I had not chased him and thrown myself at him I wouldn’t be spending all my days dreaming about life with him.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I have never had another lover that knew exactly how and where to touch me and I have never had so many orgasms in my life.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I cannot have him unless I destroy his marriage
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. It opened my eyes to the fact that some people can actually be in an involved relationship and have casual sex without cheating or hurting their partner.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Is it bad that I’m actually thinking about destroying the marriage of the most wonderful guy I’ve ever met because I want him for myself?
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Sex without love is fun. Sex with love is better
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Nice place I might come here daily
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