What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? US
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Education
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly gay/lesbian
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? More attracted to women relationship-wise, but enjoy sex with men more
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Hot one time stand
How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was home alone and perusing Grindr, saw LT, an attractive athletic looking black guy which is my biggest weakness with men.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I started chatting him up and unlike the usual Grindr chats that are slow developing and going nowhere this one moved really quickly. He was finishing up a visit with family and was heading home which was 2 hours away but was looking for a release after so much family time. Within 45 minutes of starting the conversation he was knocking on my door.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I let him into my apartment and we stood looking eye to eye and our hands started exploring each others bodies. Soon we were making out, I was already in just my underwear, and he quickly got undressed. We put our arms around each other and embraced as we kissed some more. He was a really good kisser, I started licking his nipples and rubbing his dick slowly. We moved to the bed and I took his gorgeous cock into my mouth, he adjusted himself so we could 69 and he started sucking me off too, it was ecstasy. After a good amount of time sucking his dick, licking his balls, and groping his muscles I begged him to fuck me. He obliged, slowly loosening me up with his fingers before rolling on a condom. He slipped in slowly and made sure I was comfortable which I really appreciated his pace quickened as he could sense my comfort growing, after a few minutes of fucking me from behind, I told him I wanted to watch him fuck me, so I rolled on to my back and he slipped in again missionary style. I groped his perfect arms and pecs as he fucked me gloriously, alternating between slow and sensual, and hard and animalistic. After about a half hour I couldnt take it anymore and I came all over my stomach, shortly there after he got so excited seeing me cum he pulled out and shot his load all over my stomach and chest. He rubbed my pecs and then we washed up, while making out in the bathroom. He dressed quickly and was out there door jut like that.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I still felt good about it, it had been a while since I had bottomed for a guy and I was feeling upbeat that I had been able to do it with someone who was attractive and fun. We chatted a few times more, but havent been able to make our schedules match since he isn’t often in my city. I hope we can fuck again.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Submission / Relinquishing power
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The best thing was getting off with an attractive guy, many casual hook ups fail to live up to the excitement you have just before meeting them, but this one hit all the checkmarks for me.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? that we havent met up again yet.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Casual sex is very hit or miss, especially with men, but there are just enough good ones that keep you coming back and trying again.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Its a nice forum to read about others and share your own experiences.
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