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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 18
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Los Angeles
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Deli Worker
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

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How long ago did this hookup happen? A day ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Sex with an ex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He looks like Bob from Bob’s Burgers but he’s still cute. I know him pretty well. We hooked up once before. I met him in 9th grade, I was staring at his ass in p.e. and eventually we became friends thanks to our mutual friends. I still loved him

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup was planned. He suggested at hotel so than we could be loud as we want. He instigated it. We pick out the date and time and where to meet up to go to the hotel

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? There was a lot of kissing. He really sucked my neck lol. He bit and sucked my nipples a lot. Lots of fingering in my vag. I gave him a rusty handjob a couple times. He would act so cute when I kissed his neck. I felt amazing! He was how he always has been. But he played a lot of attention to my clit omg. He was great. We didn’t talk during it. Mostly me moaning and nearly screaming gripping onto him for dear life. He always grunts. It ended well. We had sex in the morning. I wore this red dress that I knew he liked and wow he was incredibly rough with me and I loved it. Lots of spanking and hair pulling

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We went to sleep. I guess he was sleep but he wrapped his arm around me and pulled me close and it felt so nice. I felt good but at the same like an idiot. I would like to be better friends as we were pretty okay friends b4 we started dating. I still love him as I did b4

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A close friend. She didn’t seem surprised.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being close with him again. It felt nice. I felt very comfortable with him as always. Catching up with him with nice too

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Don’t have sex with an ex that you’re still in love with. It will only hurt you in the long run

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think ita great

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