What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 41
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Sales
What’s your current relationship status? Separated
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Unsure / Questioning
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Enough
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? Week ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a cute young black man… I met him on the Swingers Club website and I gave him my number and we started texting.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I posted a NSA Booty Call listing on our local swingers club website. Several guys responded. I selected him because he was available when I was available. I literally messaged him at like 7 pm and later that same night he was inside me.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We never spoke on the phone, we only texted. I had a hotel room for the night so I invited him over after I left a friends party. When he arrived I answered the door in my robe…He was very nice and smelled really good. I was super nervous because I’ve never really met up with a stranger. He wasn’t in the room for 2 minutes before his face was buried in my pussy. OMG, he licked every inch of my pussy and gently started sucking on my clit ring. It sounded like he was slurping soup. I started cumming on his tongue and then he started to tongue fuck my ass which made me cum even harder. He wouldn’t stop licking and sucking and he kept saying, “You taste so good and sweet.” So I sat on his face until I came again all over his face. Then I had him go on his back I sucked his dick so good he was grabbing the sheets and moaning so loud. By this time I was so ready to get that big cock in my pussy. I got on all fours thinking this might be the best position for sex with a stranger… he gets behind me a starts licking my ass again. He then kisses both of my butt cheeks before slowly inserting his thick hard dick into my wet pussy. OMG, it felt amazing and he would slap my ass every so often. He came in no time. Once he recovered, he wanted me on my back and he started sucking on my big tender breast. Then he put his dick in me and started pounding away. I couldn’t stop screaming because he was tweaking my nipples while he was pounding away and those sensations took me over and I was cumming all over his dick. He came right after. Then he started licking my pussy again telling me this is some good pussy and it tastes and feels so good. Then we had some small chitchat as he got himself cleaned up. Then he left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Then the next day I was sore and satisfied. I didn’t have any plans to contact him again. It was supposed to be a one-time thing.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one, my friends are super judgemental.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? He had good oral experience and he had a nice size dick
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I find out afterward that he’s only like 25. I kinda felt like a cougar
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I will probably do it again
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Since our first hookup, he has called me and left several messages. I don’t like talking on the phone so I send him straight to voicemail then he starts texting me. He says he can’t stop thinking about my pussy. I fucked him again last night and it was just as good as the first time.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’m separated and I’m so inexperienced with casual sex. All of this is new to me especially since I was with the same man for over 20 years. Now I’m exploring casual sex and trying to figure out what I like.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great outlet to share our experiences without being judged.
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