by Aus

Gender: Female
Age: 29
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: Australia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Hotel Hook Up

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 months

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short fling

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was tall and quite good looking, sandy blonde hair, slightly overweight but fit and active. We worked together but in different state offices. We’d hooked up once before after a work function when we were both interstate at a hotel and he had fingered me but we didn’t have sex.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After our previous hook up we had planned to meet up again but it never eventuated. We are both married so we’d agreed to stop speaking to one another before we did something we might regret. He is unhappy in his marriage of 15 years, I’m happy in my marriage of 3 years. I was in his hometown for work and on the last night, decided to text him to see if he’d like to catch up for a drink. He was flying in late but made plans for one drink, close to where I was staying. The bar we arranged to meet at was closed to we went to an alternative hotel lobby which was too well lit and lacked atmosphere. We had one drink, chatted a little and then he had to leave. He kissed me as I said goodbye and it got very heated very quickly. We walked to his car and he kissed me hard against the door and was rubbing his hands between my legs. I suggested going to my hotel room and we did. When the doors closed to the lift he immediately started to passionately kiss me against the wall as we climbed the 19 stories to my floor. When we got to my room he immediately took my top off and I did my best to dim the lights a little. I sat on the side of the bed and removed my shoes and he undressed himself complete very quickly.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When I lay down on the bed he took my jeans and underwear off in one motion. He very briefly licked my clit but I was already wet and he was in a hurry so he stopped and put his dick inside me. It was quite big, noticeably bigger than my husband’s and it felt good. He put my legs up over my head and thrust a little. He said he didn’t want to come too quickly and turned me over onto my tummy. He entered me with my legs closed together which felt great too. I wanted to suck his dick but instead he pulled me to the edge of the bed and fucked me from behind while standing. He didn’t last much longer and he pulled out and came on my back. I had to use the bathroom to wash it off and when I came back he was dressed. I slipped into my nightie and he looked disappointed to have to leave. So was I as I hadn’t come and I wanted some more time with him.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? No I didn’t, he did.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? He’s married and so am I, we didn’t use condoms but I would have if we had some. He pulled out to ejaculate.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Our first encounter was pretty sexy but we hadn’t gone all the way which I wanted to. I was lonely on a work trip and am having a difficult year. I wanted his company.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? One drink each

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I think he felt guilty, we haven’t been in touch since apart from one phone call. I don’t want a relationship with him but I wish the sex had been better after so much build up.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one else knows.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I regret that the sex wasn’t better, it hardly seems worth it.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was the spontaneity. The worst was that it was all too quick. I like casual sex, but I haven’t had it since I’ve been with my husband for 8 years. It felt good to be with someone different. It made sex with my husband better.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

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