What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 60
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Florida
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Get it when I can
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Many
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Several, all true
How long ago did this hookup happen? A year ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Younger & shorter than me, chubby (not a fatty), decent looking, slightly effeminate. He lived out of state. Met him at a meeting. We hit it off and he invited me to call him if I were ever in his city, we never mentioned sex nor orientation.
I eventually was in his city to visit a job site for my company. Checked into a motel & gave him a call, it was about 5 PM & I did not have dinner as yet.
He sounded very happy to get my call, & said to wait, he would be right there & he would take me to dinner. I would prefer to have him for dinner.
I took a shit, shave & shower, perfumed my body, put on extremely tight briefs.
He showed up and came in. I said I wasn’t ready yet. Instead of getting dressed, we started some small talk. All this time he was ogling my body and me his hard-on sticking up in his pants. He said he was gay and would like to do me.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I said me too, let’s get going. I started to wriggle my butt, pulled down the briefs. His pants were now off, and cock sticking up.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got on the bed & 69ed. Came in each others mouth, changed position & frenched, exchanging sperm in our mouths, then swallowing.
We commenced making love, fucking, kissing, licking, sucking. At 11 we went to dinner, back to the room till 8 AM. Saw him later in the day for another round till I left the next day.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Good
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few later
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Shoot my load
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not enough loads
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It should be mandatory
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Interesting
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