What’s your gender? Woman
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student and surf instructor
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? a month ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met D online on one of those dating sites like tinder. He’s cute but not my usual type. He was about 5’10 with dark brown hair and brown eyes. He frequents the gym but by no means as a bodybuilding type of shape, just athletic and you can tell he works out. He goes to the university about an hour away from where I live and after we matched we began talking and soon decided we should meet up. We had been talking for about a week and he was really sweet but I still wasn’t sure what he wanted exactly, a relationship, a hookup, it really wasn’t discussed.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had plans to babysit one night and he was staying in a hotel as his premed were in town visiting. They were quite generous and got him his own room too. We began joking about how nice it would be to share that hotel room again so he could use me all night long but it just didn’t seem possible as I was so far away and supposed to be babysitting until early in the morning.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Something made me want to go though. So I did. I got off work and texted him I was coming over. He was shocked that I agreed to it as I wouldn’t normally and he knew that. When I got there he met me in the hotel lobby and we made small talk about the drive and how his day was. We were holding hands and walking down the halls and I wanted to kiss him so badly. Originally I was going to say hello and then just kiss him, but I got too scared and didn’t. We finally got to his room and I went to go put my stuff down. He grabbed me a cup of water and went to get his own. When he came back he took my glass and finished my water! Looked at me and said “now that’s enough of that” and pushed me up against the wall and began to kiss me and grope my chest. (We had talked about our sexual preferences beforehand and he knew I liked really rough sex) After a few moments of that, he tossed me onto the bed and got on top of me. Everything was happening so fast it was hard to enjoy but I could feel myself getting wet already and he was only kissing me! He then motioned for me to lift my hips and he took off my jeans and my shirt and then my panties and bra. I was left completely naked in front of him. It felt dirty, to be naked and at his use while he was fully clothed. He suggested I give him a blowjob so I soon went to work as I was kneeling between his legs. This went on for a little bit as he was moaning my name and holding my hair making me bob up and down. He began to fuck my face as I had told him this was a really big turn on. Before he came he had me lay back down on the bed and he dove in between my legs. I have a pretty specific way to get off and so it’s usually hard for my partners to make me cum. But when he put one of his fingers in me I moaned and then he added another and it was pure ecstasy! I was ready to cum already but then he added a third and oh my god!!! I was practically clawing at his arms and I could feel my orgasm building. I told him not to stop and he just went faster, and before I knew it I was pulling his hair and bucking my hips. I came for the first time that night. I went back to giving him a blowjob as I needed some time to recover before going to again. We were laying on the bed and he told me to get on top of him. I did and felt him entering me and he was slightly thirsting his hips. I began to rock myself back and forth on him and then he started thrusting to meet me and oh my god. I came again. We switched positions so my legs were over he shoulders and he just started hammering my cunt. I’ve never felt so good! Before I came, he got on his knees and started to finger me again. I came AGAIN. This went on all night and we ended up having sex in the bathroom, in the shower, over a desk, and on the bed many more times.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? When I woke up D was already gone because he had to take his parents to the airport. So there I was, left in a very nice hotel room all by myself. My nerves got me the night before so I hadn’t eaten and now my stomach really hurt. I was worried D would come back and see me just hanging out in the hotel room (which he said was totally fine but it still felt weird). So I decided to just shower and go to my car. The shitty part was that I didn’t know where to pro prior that night so I peaked in a parking garage and ended up paying nearly $30. It was bullshit. But worth it.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Submission / Relinquishing power
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few friends. They were all jealous as the story gave one the feeling of being from a movie!
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having a partner make me cum so many times. and shower sex.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I wish it lasted longer
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yep! I want to start having more casual sex after that.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s sick!
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