by Ruby

Gender: Female
Age: 18
Race/ethnicity: White/Spanish
Current location: Atlanta, GA
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Personal Trainer
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Spiritual Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Hotel Weekend

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year exactly

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short-Fling

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Very attractive black male in his 20’s. He works as a music producer in Atlanta and has impressive style and swagger (if they still use this word). I loved his sense of humor and adventurous nature. Very methodical and philosophical. I enjoyed being around him.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I met X at a music festival in Piedmont Park – we were front row for Kendrick Lamar. We began to subtly dance with each other and speak enthusiastically about the experience. We were both immediately interested in each other. We exchanged phone numbers and began ‘talking’. One night I drove down at 10 pm to a very fancy hotel room he had reserved for the weekend.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Due to his confident nature and our raging libidos, it was initiated immediately. Two days of no sleep and all-out, crazy, wild, wet sex. Every position in the karma sutra, loud moans, and multiple sessions.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I did not during intercourse (of course), but he fingered me a few times. He had several!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I purchased Plan B, but no condoms.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was still recovering from my first sexual experience. It had been slightly traumatic for me because I was not ready (boyfriend of 2 years even still). I wanted to redefine and reevaluate. I wanted to have an actually beneficial sexual experience and have a cathartic release of the tension and pressures of the past.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No. He may have smoked weed.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was in an increasingly positive mood and felt very content and satisfied. I had an abundance of energy. Sunday afternoon we parted ways and I decided to halt communications and cease interactions. He still messages me consistently.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Mutually consensual

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I do not wish to regret anything.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was gained experience, comfort level, exploration – learning more about myself and that I am very talented in this aspect of life. The worst thing was that once again I feel the inevitable and uncontrollable desire/need to remove this person from my life. I feel unattached afterwards.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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