by Ellroy

Gender: Male
Age: 30
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: London, UK
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Journalist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0


How long ago did this hookup happen? November 2011

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? FWB

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Marie (name changed) moved into my student house in September 2011. I showed her around and was attracted to her straight away. She was petite, about 5’5, had a mousy brown brown bob haircut and exuded an infectious energy. We hit it off straight away and I was hoping she’d take the room.

A week after she moved in I bumped into her on the train home. She’d been out for drinks and was very touchy feely. We spoke about how hard it is to fall asleep on your own and agreed one night to start a “cuddle club” which basically involved up going to sleep next to each other. This didn’t happen straight away, I think we both felt awkward about initiating the idea, but we spent a lot of time together around the house watching movies and talking.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was meant to go out with her and her friend to a bar one night in November, but stayed behind as I had a splitting headache. She came into my room and asked me to look up a route for her online. I obliged and the whole time I could feel her eyes on me, staring a hole right into me.

The next night she returned home late and it was particularly cold. She saw my light on and came in. She asked if she could sleep in my bed with me and I agreed. I’d noticed the chemistry between us but didn’t want to assume anything, though when she returned in a pair of short shorts and a vest I couldn’t help but get a bit excited.

She climb in, and at first it was innocent enough. We spooned and I could smell her hair. Our hands interlocked, but instead of keeping still we were rubbing each others skin gently. It was slow and patient, but there was a lot of shifting. I soon started to get hard and I knew she could feel it. I started to run the tip of my finger over her bottom lip, and she responded by biting it gently.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I ran my hand along her waist and she moved on to her back. I was tugging at her shorts and she helped by pulling them down. She leaned over and kissed me, it felt like relief. She pulled my shirt off and started kissing my chest. Her hand reached down into my boxers and she felt how hard I was.

We both got naked and I began to kiss her all over her body. Her skin felt exactly as I imagined. Her body was compact but beautiful. My hand ran over her clit and I could feel how wet she already was, so I moved my mouth down her breasts and her stomach, paying special attention to that sensitive area just above the groin. She let out a small squeal that drove me nuts. I went down on her, her pubic hair was cut into a landing strip. Her scent and taste made me eat her better. I slid a finger in and she pushed her hips closer. She told me to stop because she didn’t want to cum yet, so I let her get up and she pushed my back onto the bed so she could put me in her mouth.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? She blew me to the brink so I went down on her again for a while before she asked if I had any condoms. I grabbed one put it on and we had slow but close sex. There was a lot of kissing and she kept pulling me on top of her. I pulled her leg over my hip and ran my hand over her tiny bottom.

We were trying to be quiet as to not wake up our housemates, but when she came she put her hand over her mouth. I came shortly after, she was too hot and I couldn’t hang on any longer.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I wore a condom, but didn’t discuss history.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? We just clicked. There was an attraction but there’s usually an unwritten rule that you don’t sleep with your house mantes. She later told me that she wouldn’t have moved in if I hadn’t have shown her around. We had a similar humour and liked the same artists and authors.

And we just found each other really, really hot.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? She said she’s had a couple of glasses of wine with her friends, I was stone cold sober.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? It got quite intense for a while. We slept together a lot but at heart we were always friends. I was a little smitten with her and she’d sometimes say things like “you do something to me” and “There’s something about you”. I loved the intimacy of our relationship, and looking back I don’t know why we never got together. She was three years younger than me (I was 27 at the time) and felt she would;t be interested in my in the long term.

Our housemates all knew, and one told me that Marie couldn’t tell if she really liked me or not because the sex was so good.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told one of my closest friends.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes on both counts. We were really into each other but had reservations at first. We didn’t want anything to happen that would threaten our burgeoning friendship or the mood in the house, but we both instigated it.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not in the slightest.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was the memory it has left me with. The sex I had with her was the best I’ve ever had and really loved the intimacy we developed over that time.

However, after I graduated I moved out of the house to live with another friend and I felt she thought this was her fault, it wasn’t at all and I wish I’d told her that.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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