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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA/Pennsylvania
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? IT
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

I couldn’t believe she did that!

How long ago did this hookup happen? 9 Years Ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was recovering from knee surgery and a recent breakup and started talking to this girl online. She was blonde with big breasts and just looked good online.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We decided to go out for dinner. When I finally met her, she ended up looking a lot heavier than in her pictures, but I figured why not. We went out to eat, and when I took her home to drop her off at her college dorm, she asked me if I wanted to come up and meet her roommates. Not being that interested in her, I kept trying to make excuses, but she shot them all down, so I ended up going up.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Well I met her roommates who were really nice. I saw the one wink at her. Then she asked if I wanted to go to her room. I said sure. I was thinking why not, what the heck. So we went into her room and right away she asked me if I minded if she got into something a little more comfortable. I said of course not. So she took her clothes off, and she actually didn’t look bad naked. I liked her big breasts and big ass. All of a sudden she said, who needs clothes, she says I should take mine off too.

Of course I took mine off. I had a hard on and she said it is only polite to say thanks for dinner and she started sucking my dick. In my previous relationship, the girl didn’t give head, so I was really enjoying this. She told me to cum in her mouth, so I did and she swallowed and then said thanks for dinner. I forgot to mention, she deep throats.

After that she said it’s getting late, why don’t we lay in bed. I agreed and reached for my clothes and she said, honey, I just sucked your dick, it doesn’t need to be covered up, you can sleep naked. I shrugged and got in bed. We were laying there talking a little bit and she asked if I hook up with a lot of girls being I was in the Army. I told her no and that I just got out of a relationship. She asked if me and my ex used condoms and I told her no. She said yeah, her and her ex didn’t either, because the latex irritates her skin so she is on the pill instead.

Next thing I know, she is sitting up and saying oh, I see you are hard again. I said I would like to have sex with her, but with my knee surgery, I couldn’t kneel like that yet. She said don’t you worry about a thing baby. Next thing I know she straddles me and sits on my dick, no condom. She started riding me hard. It felt so good. After a bit I felt that I was going to cum, so I told her thinking she would get off, instead she took it deeper and I came in her.

She laid down next to me and said she needed that orgasm and she hadn’t been laid in awhile. I thought this to be true the way she rode me. I went home the next morning. That night her roommate messaged me on Facebook. Shload ine said she heard the bed slamming against the wall, so she knew we had sex. I confirmed we did. Then she asked if I was planning on having sex with her again. I said it was pretty good and she let me cum inside of her, so probably. She asked if when I came inside of her if I was wearing a condom. I said no, she told me she’s on the pill and I blew a her pussy. I blew another one in her before I left that morning.

She proceeded to tell me that her roommate is a slut. She hooks up with a few different guys every week. None wear condoms, and they all cum inside of her. I got an STD test and was clean thank goodness, but it was still good head and good sex. I don’t condone this today as I was young and dumb then and my Christian believes tell me I shouldn’t do this.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? That was it.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few, they were guys, so they thought I was lucky to have a girl do that.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat

Why do you regret this hookup? It goes against my beliefs.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? She gave great head and doing her bareback felt really good.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Finding out how slutty she was afterwards and being lied to by her about that.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I was young and dumb. I don’t condone unprotected sex. My main method of birth control in my Army days was pulling out. I’m just blessed to never have caught anything.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex ruins true love. People are more worried about how big somebody’s dick is or how well she gives head than what is inside her heart.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s neat to read.

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