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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Chicago
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Entrepreneur
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Adventurous
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 150-250
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

I Fucked a Porn Star

How long ago did this hookup happen? A month

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met Audra at a porn star convention in Las Vegas. I own an online sex shop so I was there by myself for business. I stopped by a restaurant to get dinner and she sat across from me at a community table. She was friendly and beautiful in a slightly nerdy way. She had long brunette hair, wore Harry Potter glasses, was petite, and had large, beautiful breasts. We clicked instantly in a friendly way. I found out later that evening, as she escorted me to margaritas, that she was a porn star. I was fascinated and genuinely happy to have a friend in Vegas while I was all alone!

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Our hook up began five months later, after we originally met in Vegas. The Exxotica expo was in Chicago, where I currently live. I met her out at the convention center and helped her for the evening at her booth. We ended up heading into the city for drinks later that evening. She had asked me earlier in the evening if I had ever had sex with a woman and I told her I had, but it had been a long time. One drink led to another and we were kissing one another in a dark corner of the bar.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We ended up in my apartment with our hands all over each other. The kissing was fantastic and light and deep and sexy. We ran our hands through each other’s hair and down each other’s chest. I was nervous and a little bit shy but she kissed my body all over and slid her fingers over my clit and finally pushed them inside of me. She led the way and crawled her way down my body, kissing my curves, and weaving her fingers in mine. She fingered me as she sucked my clit and made me cum. She worked her way back up and cradled her pussy on my thigh and I moved my body into hers until we both came. We breathlessly kissed and fell asleep.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next day we treated it like any old day. I worked Saturday so we didn’t get to see each other, but Sunday I helped her with her booth again and after a night of drinks and fun, I wound up in bed with her again. This time the extent of our sexual experience was kissing and cuddling naked in bed. The next day we hung out and held hands and kissed. I have a very fond spot for her in my mind. I can’t wait to see her again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Discussed STI testing history, No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Intoxication

How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I spoke to some work friends and got an enthusiastic/encouraging response.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It’s rare that I’m truly attracted to a woman and can have a really intimate experience with them. So, this was special and fun.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I wish I was more confident in the hook up. I was intimidated since she specializes in lesbian porn.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, it was fantastic and I hope it happens again.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I loved it.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think it’s bs that people look down on casual sex. We’re animals, as long as consent is involved by both or all parties, then game on!

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I like be this, I will be sharing more.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!