What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Carlow
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Sales Assistant
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Experimental
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
I Got Fucked!… But Not By My Boyfriend….
How long ago did this hookup happen? A month ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? They were guys I simply liked the look of and guys I clicked with in a personal sense. Hooking up was something I never did until I went out to local bars and opened my mind, then I found out that I’m addicted to spontaneity.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began in a local bar. I was dressed in some provocative clothing which increases my confidence. I was dancing sexually and caught the eye of some boys. They came up to me, we danced for a little, they were cautious at first but were very flirtatious. One in particular seemed to fancy me a lot. And to be honest I thought he was hot. For me to admit that when I have a boyfriend took some time to gain the confidence in the months previous. I thought I wasn’t allowed to find other people attractive until my boyfriend told me not to fight my urges. So I just went with how I felt and I felt like I wanted him to take my clothes off there and then, bend me over and just fuck me like a slut. I would soon realise that this dream became a reality.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got chatting and left before it was closed so nobody would see us. The flirting was relentless as we strolled towards a very quiet lane which was lit very poorly. He grabbed me by them bum playfully and I liked it. I started to kiss him on the lips which then became full on making out. He worked his hands up my bra and squeezed my boobs and slid them back down to grab my bum. As the kissing went on he slid his hand up my skirt and began to massage my already dripping wet pussy. I had so many thoughts, like what would my boyfriend think or I want him now and I’m hungry all at the same time. But I knew my boyfriend was ok with this so I embraced it. So I felt around for his dick and didn’t have to search very far. It felt like the handle of a brush, absolutely solid. I instinctively dropped to my knees and undid his Jeans. I could feel my mouth salivating. I revealed his dick and was driven wild by its size and its pulsating veins. I played around for a bit and then sucked him off. He came pretty much everywhere including my mouth. But I knew he wanted more out of me and I really wanted to see how much I could take because I was so turned on. We walked back to his bed and he literally threw me on the bed and tore shreds out my clothes making me breathless. He licked my pussy out and I couldn’t contain the moans. All I could think about was his hard veiny pulsating dick. Until then he picked me up and turned me onto all fours and that’s when in one sudden movement my whole body shivered in joy as his hard dick seamlessly slid into my throbbing pussy. He did not hold back in the slightest. Throwing me from position to position as I enjoyed euphoria. He then put me on my back and told me to get ready as he went for it one last time climaxing his load right up inside me. I was completely paralyzed with pleasure. He had fucked my brains out. Quite literally as I couldn’t speak. He got up and left without a word to go for a smoke and a toilet break as I informed my boyfriend.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt so satisfied. My boyfriend picked me up and I told him little details. I knew that wasn’t gonna be the last time I did this however.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My boyfriend who I didn’t give the whole story to by the way.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Definitely just the pure spontaneity
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Cleaning up his semen
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Oh yes definitely for the better
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love it
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