What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 43
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? California
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
I Got Fucked
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was out of town for work and visited a gay bathhouse. I have been to bathhouses before, but this was my first and only time at this particular one. I was wandering around exploring the place. There were several dark spaces and he surprised me in one of them, startling me. He was about 5’6”, shaved head, and well built.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After the first encounter, we went our separate ways. A little while later I encountered him again in one of the hallways and he asked if I wanted to come to his room. In addition to public areas, this bathhouse also had a number of private rooms that patrons could rent. I agreed and followed him. As we neared the room he started grabbing my ass in an almost possessive way. I was excited by this as most men at these clubs are bottoms or just want to suck some cock.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The room was expectedly spartan. There was a full-size bed. The wall facing the bed was a large mirror. We both dropped the towels that we were wearing around our waist and began to do some light kissing and touching/caressing. While we were doing this he kept grabbing my ass and occasionally probing my hole with his fingers. I love anal play but have rarely bottomed before. I’m extremely tight. I’m inexperienced enough that I didn’t realize what was coming.
He had a beautiful cock. It was about 7-8”, not too thick and with a nice mushroom head. I wanted to suck it very badly and started to kneel down to take that gorgeous cock into my mouth. As my mouth got close to it, he gently, but firmly pushed me over onto the bed on my back. He grabbed the back of my legs and pushed them back and started to aggressively tongue my asshole. It felt great and I started to moan. After a minute or so of this, he stood up and moved me to the other side of the bed where the mirror caught our full reflection. He stood behind me and asked me if I liked to get fucked. I was nervous because I had only been fucked a couple of times and never by a cock the size of his. But I was also lusting after him and was very turned on by how he had been handling me in such a dominant, possessive way. I told him that I did like to get fucked, but that I wasn’t very experienced. He gave me a popper. I had never used one before but eagerly inhaled this one in preparation for trying to take this beautiful big cock.
Once I inhaled the popper he pushed my head down onto the mattress with my knees on the bed, ass in the air. He lubed up his cock but didn’t put a rubber on. Then without warning, he pushed himself into me. To my surprise, it didn’t hurt as I expected. Instead, I was just filled with the amazing sensation of having my ass full of his cock.
For the next 15 minutes, he proceeded to fuck the shit out of me. My other experiences bottoming have all been slower and more gentle due to how tight I am. This was the opposite. He plowed into me, occasionally spanking my ass with his cock. All the while we could both see ourselves in the large mirror opposite us. As he began to get even deeper I did feel some pain and told him I couldn’t take it much longer. A few more thrusts and he buried himself in me balls deep and emptied himself into me. That was also a first, having someone cum in my ass. He gently pushed me down fully onto the bed and withdrew himself from me. Moments later I left the room and went to the showers to clean up.
I’ve never been fucked like that before or since. I’m still fantasizing about it a year later.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? This was a random anon encounter. I never learned his name or saw him again. I did feel somewhat guilty doing this behind my wife’s back. My biggest regret/concern was having unprotected sex. I got tested a couple of weeks later and was clean.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Submission / Relinquishing power
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Poppers (Amyl Nitrate)
How intoxicated was your partner? I don’t know
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? I regret having unprotected sex.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I had never had someone take possession of me like that. He dominated me in the sense that he took what he wanted from me. He wanted my ass from the start and ended up getting what he wanted.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It has made me want to get fucked like that again.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I am very sex positive. I think of sex primarily as a physical activity outside of relationships, though I do enjoy intimacy with my partners, especially women. I believe that what consenting adults enjoy doing with each other should not be a problem for anyone else.
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