What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? New York City
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Teacher
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
I Got Seduced by a Man with a Whip
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 days ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Seduction/arousal and touching
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I went to a club circus party with some friends, where I met a guy I was interested in. He had dark hair, was tallish, a Ph.D. nerd, and very much Argentine dreamy BF material. He introduced me to some of his friends, one of which was my mystery whip man. I don’t even know his name. Whip man had a sexy British accent, he was short and dark haired with a beard. He had beautiful light eyes he was wearing all black an had one of those long whips with a leather tag on the end of it.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I went over to the area where the dudes were hanging out and I was looking for the BF material boy. I asked whipman about him and he said he was dancing. Whipman and I agreed the music was terrible so we went out to sit on the porch. I was sitting at the edge of the tent in a chair when it started to rain. Whipman made room and asked me to join him under the tent so I did.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Whipman initiated the touching but it was with his whip. I think he started by tracing the silhouette of my face gently with the end of the whip. From my sideburn to my chin, up to my ear and around the back of my hairline. To my surprise, I loved this. It felt so good and I got really turned on by it. Never in a million years would I have thought I’d be into something like this. He started touching my inner thighs and my nipples under the cups of my dress. He traced my collar bones and my neck. Most of the sexual contact was him teasing me with this whip while I occasionally looked at him, smiled and even squirmed.
We kissed a bit too and I was really into it. It was a good fucking kiss. He said I kissed like I’d suck his dick really well, so I assumed he was into it too. He placed my hand on his dick which was hard under his pants, then leaned in and asked me if he could unzip me and touch me. I was wearing a dress that zipped from my neck all the way down my back to just above my butt and a leather jacket. He went for my boob and quickly moved down to investigate my ass situation. I have a really squishy butt, so even though I was sitting on this couch he could grab onto my ass meat as he tried to get under me. He asked me if he could touch me and I told him not with his dirty hands so I let him get as far as my pubes as I squeezed my thighs together he couldn’t get passed. We talked about heading out as it was 3 am but neither of us was willing to have each other over (I have roommates and he told me he had a friend staying with him). So, he zipped me back up and had his arm wrapped around my waist as he soothingly touched me there. The friend who introduced us came back and my whip man got up to get a drink. I was in another state. It’s a little hard to describe. I wasn’t on drugs or anything ( just alcohol and cannabis ;)) but, I was like entranced and I felt so high and good. I couldn’t even attend to the friend when he sat down next to me. I couldn’t really believe what had just happened and it was the only thing I could think about. For the next 48 hours lmao!
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Omg, I’m hooked on this guy. I can’t stop thinking about the hookup and what happened. I don’t even know his name, and there’s no way to contact him. I can’t believe how into the whip I was and it motivated me to watch some SM porn with whipping. It’s awesome to discover a new avenue for sexuality that I never even considered. I’m pretty sure I’ve been dreaming about this encounter and not gonna lie I’ve been trying to find him lol! I want more!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Submission / Relinquishing power, Making new friends, Just happened, I don’t know why but I just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? I don’t know
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’ but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Friends. The women thought it was pretty hot and my male friends thought it was hilarious and maybe a little weird.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The tickling and teasing
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He’s a mystery man and I can’t get any more of it!
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes I think I could be into some whip play
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? How do I get into this more? How do I find someone who is also into it?!
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