by Z

Gender: Female
Age: 24
Race/ethnicity: Hispanic
Current location: Boston
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Occupation: Educator
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? I’ve hooked up with women in the past but I enjoy penis.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? This is my first

I Had My Eye On the Prize

How long ago did this hookup happen? 9/1/2014

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Okay so I had seen this man at multiple parties before in the past. I always had my eye on him because he is very attractive. He plays basketball for a very well known college in the area. I am getting my masters degree at the same school and have also seen him around campus. This man is 6’9 and very attractive. I am older than him by slightly 2 years. I have had a crush on him for some time I would say at least a year. I never had the balls to talk to him. However this weekend all of that changed.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was at a new bar in Rhode Island with some friends when I spotted him walking into the bar. I immediately locked eyes with him but proceeded to continue having a good time with my friends. I locked eyes with him more than once that night but I again was too shy to say anything. One of my friends was like “that guy is so cute” I proceeded to tell her I had a crush on him and have for a while. She is older than me by like 5 years and told me I needed to get his attention by locking eyes with him and doing something cute when he looked at me. So I did and it worked. He made a reference with his finger for me to walk over to him. At first I was hesitant but I agreed. I walked over to him after the club and we began to talk. The conversation was short but he managed to get my number. After the club he begins to text me and tell me how he wants to hang out. I was all FOR IT! I needed to get laid and I wanted to get laid.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He came to pick me up down the street from the college we attend. My friend happens to live across the street from my school. When we got to his apartment I totally forgot what we were talking about. I was nervous. I told him I wasn’t use to hooking up like this. He made me feel so comfortable about the situation and told me it wouldn’t matter if we waited 4 dates to have sex he would still look at me the same. This man is possibly going to get drafted to the NBA pretty soon. He informed me of this and told me he only has a few weeks to hang out. We began kissing and then he unbuttoned my pants. I didn’t have any panties on so he immediately got full access to my pussy. He started touching it and it was all wet. As he is doing this he is telling me how hot I am. I told him to eat me out and he did. While licking my pussy he was fingering me at the same time. It was great. Again this man is 6’9 and I am 5’1 when it came to sex we started off with missionary. His penis wasn’t as big as I thought it would be for his height. But it was a perfect size for me. He whispered in my ear that he wanted me to ride him, so I did. Men love it when I ride them I seem to do it well. After I came on his dick a few times he proceeded to fuck me from the back. While in this position he began to fuck me hard. It hurt for a minute so I informed him. Then he came close to me in that same position and started fucking me slow. I enjoyed this a lot. He was so turned on by me, it was unbelievable. I am not sure if it was because of how hot I am or what but he kept staying things like “omg your amazing” “your so tight and wet” I thought it was cute. When we were done we talked for a little and made out then I went home.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes we both did. He kept his condom on for longer than I expected which was weird. I always come multiple times during sex. We only went one round which kind of sucked since I enjoy having sex 2 or 3 times before calling it quits for the night. He had to work out in the morning so there wasn’t much we could do.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We didn’t discuss STI history but he did put on a condom.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I personally just came back from vacation where I had a short term relationship with a man who ended up fucking me over. I needed to release some stress. I was well aware of what was happening.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I did drink before sex but I wasn’t too drunk. Maybe just a little tipsy but nothing out of the ordinary.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hook up not much happened we have been texting but thats all. I expect for much of anything to come from this situation. He is a young kid with a lot going on. He is about to go to the NBA I am about to be a school teacher. I think we just enjoyed the night. I will say this, I am the kind of woman who loves sex and if it was up to me I would have a man here fucking me right now. I am a little bummed that it is just that, sex. I don’t know if there is a future between the two of us. I am just letting it go if he wants more he has my number.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My girl friends of course! They think I am crazy but also know that I am 24 and single with no kids so to them it’s okay. A few said I should have waited to have sex with him.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual, he did have to convince me for a little while but I knew deep down that dick was going to be mine!

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I don’t regret it but I do wish maybe I didn’t have a craving for it at the moment. I want a consistent man not just a hook up for the night. But I am beautiful, smart and well off, I will find that eventually.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was his reaction towards me during sex and the passion we had for one another. I kept talking spanish to him and he was going crazy!!! The worst thing is the not being sure if I will ever get to fuck him again!!! Being in suspense sucks!!!

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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