What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London, UK
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Banking
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? About 260
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? A few
I Have Never…
How long ago did this hookup happen? About 4 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? B was a classmate on my post-grad finance course. All of us in the class got to know each other quite well over the course of the year and we regularly went on nights out together. B was a blue-eyed, curvy dirty-blonde, with big hips and spectacular breasts. We weren’t close friends, but had talked quite a few times.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? A group of us were on a night out and B and I were dancing together. I could feel that there was chemistry there, so I made a move and kissed her. We made out for a while and then she asked me back to her place, so I called a cab and went to use the condom machine while we waited for it.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got back to her place and she told me both of her housemates were away, so we made out in the living room and took each other’s clothes off. We stood there naked and I fingered her for a while until she came, then she got on her knees and sucked my cock. After that, we moved into the kitchen and she lay on her back on the kitchen table. I put a condom on, spread her legs and put my cock inside her. I lifted her legs so that her heels were resting on my shoulders, and each time I thrust into her pussy her breasts jiggled, which I found really hot. I started fingering her clit and gradually fucking her harder and faster until her breasts were bouncing around all over the place and she came again. Earlier in the evening, we’d all been playing a game of ‘I have never’ and B had said that she had never ‘done it doggy-style’. I asked if she wanted to try it, and she laughed and got on all fours on the kitchen floor. I fucked her hard from behind and I remember her arse-cheeks jiggling and her massive breasts bouncing around and smacking against each other as I pounded her until I came. We got dressed and sat at the kitchen table and had a couple of glasses of wine. It was late and she said I could stay the night in her bed. In the morning, we had sex again – I fingered her to get her wet, then she rode me whilst I grabbed and squeezed those huge breasts and fingered her some more until she came, and not long afterwards so did I. Then I got dressed and went home.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? B and I continued hooking up fairly regularly for the rest of our time in college together, but drifted apart after that. We got on well as ‘friends with benefits’, but I was never romantically interested in her and I don’t think she was in me either.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? The other guys in our class who’d been in the club with us knew what had happened and tried to start some ‘banter’ with me about it, but I didn’t say much.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I found it really hot knowing that I was the first guy ever to have doggy-style sex with her – knowing as I was doing it that she’d never done it before and was enjoying doing it with me.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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