by Elsie

What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Scotland
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Manager
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 19
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 4

I Just Wanna Fuck Yer

How long ago did this hookup happen? Just over a year

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This is my final story about Ron. We had been working away together for a couple of months but the project was over so I knew we would hardly ever see each other again. We had had sex twice on the trip and had a couple of other intimate encounters. He had been my best friend, but kept pushing me away, partly because he was worried about my husband finding out but partly because I think he was getting in too deep. I certainly was.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? A group of us went for drinks after work, we were back in our office by this point not travelling. But I lived a train ride away and had agreed I would stay at a friend’s house. When I got to the bar Ron was there but I spent more time talking to others. He disappeared for a while to another bar and I was concerned he would not return so I called him and I was pleased when he came back. I was pretty drunk but he was steaming.

He ended up in a fight with another colleague who was totally smashed, and we got escorted out of one door and the others out of another. I led him away by the hand to try to calm him down, and we went to a car park where we sat on the hood of a car.

The alcohol was in charge and so he told me exactly what the trip had been about for him. It was just sex – he’d actually had sex with three people on the trip six times in total. My head was a mess – I thought we had something special but I felt a total mug. I was wondering who else he’d fucked and if I’d looked a complete idiot to those who knew. He also told me he loved his girlfriend and wanted to marry her. But then he said “I just wanna fuck yer” in his Scottish way and stuck his hand down my pants. He told me he was going to make me cum.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? All the alcohol I’d had didn’t matter any more. My head was clear – I thought sod it, let’s just fuck then. I knew I’d possibly never see him again, and if he wanted to fuck then let’s fuck and make it all about me this time.

We got a cab and I called my friend to let her know I was coming, it was about 3.30am and I woke her up. She was shocked to see Ron but let us in and told me there was a duvet on the couch. He was still pissed and loud but he just took his clothes off, got a condom and I jumped on.

We must have been quite loud and when he started smacking my arse my friend came out of her room and threw us out. I quickly dressed and Ron lounged around so I more or less dressed him too and dragged me with him. I found the condom wrapper and binned it but when we got outside he told me he’d left the condom on the table!! I was mortified and texted my friend, who was utterly disgusted and angry and actually unfriended me on Facebook. I didn’t speak to her for a year.

We were stuck at 4.30am and we got another cab and tried to find a hotel. He refused point blank for me to go back to his, some crap story about his landlady not allowing anyone to sleep over but I’m positive it’s because of his girlfriend. Eventually we found a hotel with a room which was extortionate but I was tired and fed up by this point and had to work in the afternoon.

I wondered if he was just going to leave me there and go home but he went to the bathroom whilst I took my clothes off and got into the bed exhausted. He then clumsily pulled the sheets off, climbed on top of me and started kissing me.

He went down on me for a bit, which he’s not that great at and even worse when drunk! But his cock was rock hard and he came up and put it on my pussy but told me he didn’t have any more condoms. I asked him if that was a good idea because of all the other women he’d been shagging, but I just thought fuck it and let him slide it in.

Once we got going it was great, I actually couldn’t tell much difference between him with and him without a condom. I don’t actually remember what we did other than lots of positions and pretty intense, but I do remember the delicious feeling of his cum running down my legs afterwards and whilst a condom would have been better, that was sexy as hell. He then did his usual of rolling over and snoring very loudly.

I tried to sleep but was on and off for a few hours. I reached over to him and started rubbing his cock til he got hard again and he started moaning, a really gruff purr that he’d never made before. I alternated between stroking him and taking him in my mouth and he squirmed with pleasure. He reached over and started fingering me, until I whispered I needed him inside me and sat on top.

Everything just exploded, he felt amazing as I just bucked on top, he kept purring and groaning and grabbed my nipples really hard. Eyes shut the whole time, he laid back with his hands behind his head and a massive grin and I fucked him hard.

He mumbled “turn round” so I did, and everything just got 10 times better. Every stroke of his cock inside me sent shivers down my spine and then he started playing with my asshole and my head nearly blew off. I watched myself in the mirror as I ground down onto him and rubbed my clit frantically until I had a huge orgasm. I was breathless, my mouth was dried up, I was exhausted but he was right, he had made me cum and my God did I cum.

I carried on bouncing on top for a few minutes until he tapped me on the back, I climbed off and he came on his stomach. Immediately he was snoring again so I tried to get a bit more sleep but got up and had a shower and then had to drag him up and out when he had to check out.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We wandered outside and he got a coffee and a juice from McDonalds. He said had I better get a morning after pill as he thought we might’ve had unprotected sex? I was furious, couldn’t he remember what happened, we did it twice!! I told him what we did, he said he did remember me backing him which I assume was his term for reverse cowgirl. I couldn’t believe that he could barely recall such an amazing fuck. I told him I was on the pill otherwise I wouldn’t have even gone there. He remained highly amused about my friend throwing us out. He then said we should never see each other again, I reluctantly agreed even though I desperately wanted to be friends. We walked away, I was actually quite happy as eventually I’d had a great fuck on my terms even if he didn’t quite remember it all.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, Power / Dominance

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friend told some of our colleagues what happened, one of them called me in the office later that day, they found it hilarious.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? I regretted getting thrown out of my friend’s house, I completely abused her friendship and we didn’t speak for a year. I have seen her since and everything seemed ok, but it really wasn’t worth it.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Even though he was wasted he went after me like an animal. I was then able to use him to have the fuck I wanted. It was so sexy and raw and satisfying.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The whole situation was fucked up really, my emotions were up and down. Looking back, I would have preferred to have traded the sex for my friend, as I’m now left with an acquaintance and someone who won’t even talk to me never mind fuck me.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It highlights my insecurity. A week later there was another night out – Ron was there. So despite never going to see each other again, there we were. He was almost angry with me – don’t stand so close, get out of my face. He had a few drinks and softened up but I couldn’t handle it and got so drunk I blacked out and can vaguely recall standing outside my hotel crying down the phone to him whilst he escaped in a taxi. I was an utter disgrace. Unless I can keep sex and emotions separate, I can’t do this anymore.

If you’ve read my first Ron tale you’ll know we met up again a few months ago and had an incredible night together. Since then we spoke a little but it has totally tailed off. We might see each other again if the group we worked in gets together, but I’m not going to force it and at the moment I’m concentrating on my husband, cheating isn’t really on my agenda right now.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

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