Location: Mid west
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Relationship status: In a relationship, for the time being
Religious affiliation: Catholicism
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
I Just Wanna Get Off
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 days ago
How would you best classify this hookup? One night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is so adorable and handsome and gentlemanly I just couldn’t resist. I met him at my friend’s house. She had a small party and invited him to come, and as soon as I saw him I knew I wanted him.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I started up a conversation with him and it just went so smoothly. Was quite enjoying my time there. At the party everyone joined in on a game of strip poker and things started to get heated. He and I kept our hands off each other while others were around, but we were definitely checking each other’s bodies out. After a few more drinks I decided to just go up to him and get close, and to my joy he gave in and put his arm around me and held my hand. I was raring to go at this point so I suggested we go to my friends basement to have some alone time.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started out by doing some cuddling and just feeling each other’s bodies. From there kissing started. I moved my hands up and down his smooth body and started kissing and nibbling on his ears. He reached his hand down my pants and started to stroke my vaginal area. By this point I was dripping wet and he obviously knew. After he fingered me for a little while I took off his pants and gave one of the most sexy blow jobs I’ve ever performed. I was having the time of my life. He lifted me off of him and laid me on my back and slid right into me. That’s always my favorite moment. I love seeing the look of satisfaction a man gets when he enters a woman. Just the pure thought of that and seeing his face gets me mentally off.
We started to really go at it, getting in tune with each other’s rhythm and stimulating each other’s sensitive zones. I decided to take the reigns and get on top of him, which he loved. I was riding him so hard I felt like a fucking pornstar. I could tell he was loving every second of it, and I was too. Soon we were interrupted by my friend saying we needed to leave (we had been going at it for several hours by this point) so we left her house and resumed fucking in his car. I didn’t want him to cum in my vagina though so I suggested we do anal, and he quickly said yes. He told me he’d never actually done it before, but he’d always wanted to. I love that. I love giving someone an experience they have never had before, it makes me feel like I stand out and have some kind of power. Anyway, we start fucking in my ass and it feels so damn good. My ass is up and my face is down, and by the noises we both were making it was clearly enjoyable. We were on a slight busy street, but I didn’t give a fuck. All that mattered was getting him off (I had orgasmed several times during those hours we spent together so I just wanted to see him cum by this point). And of course he did. Fucking loved it. We put our pants back on then cuddled and chatted in his car for a bit, but that was short lived being as he had to be at work in two hours. We spent the entire night having our sexy time, and I loved every second of it. He did get my number and since then we have texted some and we have plans to hang out soon. Not sure where it’s gonna go, but I’m ready for the ride.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I was really awful and actually took no precautions what so ever. Besides having him cum elsewhere rather in my vagina. I am going to the gyno in a weeks time to have my annual and start back on the pill though. After the fact he texted me and asked how many partners I have had and if I was clean, and I said that he was the 5th penis to enter my body and that I was clean. To my knowledge anyway, but that’s why I’m going to the doctor.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Reasons: horny, sexually attracted to him, he could maintain an intellectual conversation, and he was so god damn attractive.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I was fairly drunk. I had a forty ounce of Mikes Extra Hard along with some hard ciders. He was also drunk. I was drunk enough to have a hangover, but not so drunk to the point where I didn’t remember anything. Clearly.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Like I had mentioned before, he asked for my number and we have been texting some. My friends are really encouraging us to talk more and go on dates, which I wouldn’t mind… I just have to end my current relationship that died a while ago.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to my two best friends about it, and now this. They definitely encourage me and him to continue to talk. They are very open minded ladies whom I can tell anything to and they won’t judge me.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? We both definitely wanted it.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I don’t regret it, no. I needed to have some really great sex and that’s just what happened. I feel a bit guilty I cheated on my boyfriend, but we were doomed from the start. I need to break up with him, I just haven’t seen him in order to do so.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best: meeting a really awesome guy and having fantastic sex with him.
Worst: not knowing where I stand with him and having emotions now associated with him. I’m really awful at fucking and then not acting like anything happened.
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I know I may be in a relationship which I was unfaithful in, but I figure I’m young and sexual and have been holding back for so long; I needed to do this to prove to myself that I can be free and my own sexual being.