What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Germany
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Promiscuous
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 24
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
I Took Her Virginity
How long ago did this hookup happen? Last Year
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Jasmin is the little sister of one of my best friends. She was 17 back then. Jasmine ca. 170 cm tall, slim. She has long reddish hair and small, but very perky breasts.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I spent the weekend with one of my best friends Bernd, his girlfriend Monika and his sister, Jasmin, at a small holiday house. The house is owned by Bernd s parents. We spent the day hiking. While we were walking and enjoying nature, I got to chat a lot with Jasmin and there was a certain chemistry. I did not have much hope of this progressing any further, because she is a bit younger than me. Also, trying to get into my friends sister’s pants when he is around seemed to be very awkward to me.
In the evening, the four of us had a bit of a drinking session in the holiday house. I was horny as usual and got envious of Bernd because he would have someone to have sex with that night and I probably would not. Encouraged by the drinks, I decided to try my luck with young Jasmin.
To my surprise, I got a very good response to my approaches. We ended up on the sofa cuddling a little bit while we were still chatting and drinking with Bernd and Monika. Late in the night, Bernd and Monika withdrew into the bedroom. Jasmin was supposed to sleep on the bed, while I should sleep on the floor in the same room as Jasmin.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When everybody had gone to bed and lights were out, I approached Jasmin on the sofa. She played a bit with my hair and laughed in a girlish way. She seemed to happy that I took the courage to approach her. Truth is that it was pure foolhardiness because I was so horny.
I kissed her and we started making out. After a bit, we both fell off the sofa. That made us giggle, but we both felt we had to be quiet because her brother was sleeping in the other room.
I played a bit with her little perky titties and my hand made its way to her pussy. She let me do this, seemingly enjoying it. I fingered her for a little bit and she quietly moaned into my ear. It was incredibly sexy. I wispered to her that I have a condom.
(I always have a condom on my just in case I get lucky.)
To my surprise, she told me that she was still a virgin! I took this as a no, and silently proceeded with the petting. Our petting got stronger, she was touching my stiff penis. She wispered into my ear that she was ready for it. I stripped off my clothes and put on the condom.
With her lying naked on her back, I went with my head between her legs and licked her sweet pussy a bit. She got very wet. I went for it. I worked my penis slowly and carefully into her tight virgin pussy. It felt wonderful. I love taking a girl’s virginity! Jasmin slung her legs around me and I started fucking.
She tried to surpress her moans but I could hear her, my ears being very close to her mouth.
We both came. There was really some blood, and we had to clean a little bit. I was getting anxious of whether we had been too loud. Bernd would suspect something anyway because he had seen us cuddling on the sofa while we were drinking.
We cuddled a bit afterwards, she started crying for some reason. I comforted her, being very tender. It ended up with her withdrawing back onto the sofa and me sleeping on the ground where we had sex. I had a very sound sweet sleep that night.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We went home. Bernd and Monika did not say anything about it during breakfast or on the way home. Jasmin was a bit distant to me, not really letting me approach her. I wondered whether she was angry at me.
A few days later, Jasmin texted me and we met up. We had sex again. We discussed having a relationship. I told her that I am only interested in an open relationship, because I am very promiscuous. Jasmin was not happy with that, cried a bit and we stopped our fling.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I had a chat with Bernd, Jasmins brother, about the situation. He did not have any problem with what I had done. Bernd told me that he had talked to his sister beforehand and explained to her what kind of guy I am when it comes to women. Bernd felt that it had been Jasmin’s decision to have sex with me and she was old enough. We are still friends, even though Jasmin avoids me.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I am immensely proud of it. I had sex with a younger girl who was still a virgin.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That I only had sex twice with Jasmin.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I learned that I should be bolder in my approaches because I can have success were I dont expect it.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I try to get as much as possible. It is not working at the moment, which really frustrates me. This is why I am writing stories about my earlier successes here.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it!
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