by Anthony Connor

Gender: Male
Age: 35
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Melbourne
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Straight Male Escort / sex researcher
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Three figures
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Zero

I Want You To Fuck Me, Then Leave

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 and 1/2 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met at a bar. She was stood with a man. I thought I was chatting to a couple. He turned out to be her gay friend.
She was a little older, around 40ish. Dressed conservatively, with a knee length skirt, simple black top and jacket over the top, despite us being in a young, funky bar.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I’d been on a night out with work mates. They had left the bar. I was finishing my drink before heading off to meet other friends at another bar. I started talking to a ‘couple’ next to me, sharing how annoyed I was that I’d just bought a drink and my colleagues had left. We chatted for a while. Then the man she was with went to the bathroom. She turned to me and said, “I live around the corner. I want you to come home with me, fuck me and then leave.”
“What about your boyfriend?” I asked.
“He’s not my boyfriend, he’s gay.”

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When the gay friend returned, she told him we were leaving and she led me to her place. She poured two glasses of wine, put the dogs away and turned some music on. We chinked glasses, sipped and then kissed. We stayed in the open plan kitchen/living room. We stripped each other off pretty quickly and we had sex leaning against the back of her couch.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? It was hot and pretty fast. Yes, I did have an orgasm. I don’t think she did, but she did let out some small screams when I did, probably in sympathy orgasm.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condom.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Her invitation was hot. It felt like a different, daring thing for me to do.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes. We were tipsy when we met, but didn’t get any more drunk. No drugs.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We got dressed, sipped some more wine, and left with a kiss at the door. I went off to meet my friends. i didn’t tell them that night, but did tell them a few months later.
I felt good about it. It’s one of the catalyst events for me turning towards sex research into female desire and becoming a straight male escort.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? 3 or 4 friends. Most found it funny and were proud. One, my closest male friend, said he didn’t like it. Said it felt like I was used. But I think it’s double standards as he loves doing hook ups. Also, I think he was jealous, because he has that tendency.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? yes of course!

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No way.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? As above, this event, a few others and my own relationship past led me to begin researching sex, in particular female sexual desire. That led me to becoming a male escort, because I didn’t want to go back to uni.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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