What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 37
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Seattle
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 5
I Was A Broke Traveler And Needed A Place To Stay
How long ago did this hookup happen? 19 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a french gentleman perhaps in his 50s. I don’t speak French and he spoke broken English so I didn’t really get to know him at all.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? So I arrived in Paris and studied the train routes as best as possible but didn’t account for holiday hours over bastille day. I was sleeping in the gare du nord in Paris, backpack in tow, fairly well dressed. An older gentleman sat down next to me and asked if I had anywhere to spend the night the best he could in English. I was exhausted but said no as any smart traveler would to a strange man inviting me back to his place. He continued on and I couldn’t fall back asleep…
20 minutes later, I saw him again and tried to make small talk. He said if I would go with him to his place, he’d fuck me, give me 200€ and I could sleep in his bed. I reluctantly agreed as I had never been fucked in the ass before but was so tired that I just went for it.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got to his place which was small but nice and tidy. He gave me a bottle of water and let me use his washroom. I am nervous about how my ass looks to this day so I wiped it with baby wipes and made it look as presentable as possible. I came out of the washroom naked and he greeted me with a kiss. He led me to the bedroom and guided me over the bed and bent me over. He came up behind me and started licking my ass. I was shy but more than anything it tickled. As I was giggling, he slapped my ass to calm me down. He really ate out my ass and stuck his tongue way up there. A few minutes later, he came in front of me and gestured that I remove his pants. I did as instructed and his cock was halfway hard. I sucked him for a few moments and got him all the way hard. I asked him to put on a condom but he said he didn’t have any but insisted he was clean. I avoided anal sex with him by sucking his cock some more. Eventually, I was frustrated that he hadn’t yet cum, so reluctantly I let him in my ass bareback. I was flat on my stomach, him on top. He went really hard on me for it being my first time. Within perhaps 3 or 4 minutes, his rhythm slowed and he kept his cock in me. As he pulled out, I could feel his cum dripping out of my ass. He kissed my neck, which repulsed me as he was just tongue deep in my ass 5 minutes earlier. I went to the washroom and washed my neck. His cum was a thick goo that stayed up in me.
He showered and cleaned up and I passed out in his bed, he cuddled up in the big spoon position. Hours later I woke up with his cock poking into my ass through our boxers. He asked if he could fuck me again. I must admit I wasn’t in the mood but felt better about it this time as we’d already had sex and mixed body fluids so I said yes. He fucked me again and came quite quickly, again pushing his cock as deep in me as he came. I took the 200€ he offered me and he gave me his number. I then let myself out.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Well I got on the train to head to meet friends later and his cum dripped out of me. It was sexy even though uncomfortable. I decided to stay with him again on my return trip, took 100€ from him the 2nd time. Again bareback sex with me as the bottom.
I kind of learned I am a bottom in sex more than a penetrative partner as I enjoyed my ass being the object of affection more than my penis.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Material rewards (gifts, money, drinks, dinner…),
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat
Why do you regret this hookup? I enjoy anal sex but until I got myself tested it was in my mind that it was a bit reckless. It bothered me until I was back in the states.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It opened my horizons sexually. I had given guys blowjobs but never did anal. Plus I really needed the money.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That I had unprotected anal sex with a stranger. Luckily no harm was done. I also had irritable bowel syndrome for like the next 36 hours.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I had lots of pleasure and actually whored myself out a bit more later on with both men and women. It helped pay for my degree and I saw lots of the world
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It was awesome being pursued and I actually liked carrying his cum in me.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I wish more people were open minded towards casual sex.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s great!
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