by Vanessa

Gender: Female
Age: 47
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Florida
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Manager
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met this partner through a craigslist ad that was posted by a friend of mine in another state that wanted me to have sex with someone other than my husband. He answered the ad with some pictures of his great body and 10 inch penis. I was already wet looking at the pictures! We emailed throughout the day and I sent him a nude picture of me. Thought that might be a turn-off for him, but it wasn’t. He gave me his phone number and asked me to text him. He really wanted to hook up because it was his last day in town. He was staying in a hotel and I agreed to meet him at 11 pm. We actually talked for a few minutes before the hook up just to hear each others voices. I felt both excited and nervous before the meeting.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I arrived at the hotel right around 11 pm. We had both planned the hookup. I just had to drive to the hotel where he was staying. I would say that he instigated the meeting by telling me that he really wanted to hook up and this night would be the only night he could because he was leaving town in the morning.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I arrived at his room and he greeted me with a huge smile and invited me in. We had talked about my dog earlier, so I showed him a picture of him. He had been watching Shark Tank and asked if I liked that show. I said yes. I sat down on the bed and he immediately started kissing me. He bit my lower lip gently when we first started and I was so turned on. We were both quietly moaning while we were kissing. He gently laid me back on the bed and began caressing my body. I was rubbing all over his back and neck. He put his hand down my pants then unzipped them and pulled them off and started fingering me. I was so wet by that point. The kissing and fingering went on for a few more minutes and he asked me if I wanted him to fuck me. I told him yes!. He got up and put on a condom and then penetrated me. It felt so good. He was fucking me and telling me how it felt good and tight. Then he wanted me to ride him, so he flipped over and I got on top of his long penis. I took off his shirt and he took off mine. I was rubbing all over his chest and he was touching my boobs and gently hitting them, which was very arousing. He told me he was going to come, so I got off of him because I didn’t want it to end that quickly! I then got on all fours and let him fuck me doggy style. He told me he was going to come, he pulled out and came in the condom. We kissed for a few more minutes, he got up and cleaned himself up and laid back down on the bed. We kissed for a little longer and I asked him if he wanted me to leave. He said, “well, I am not going to be able to go again”, so I told him it was great meeting him and that it was fun and I left.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? He had an orgasm, I did not.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We discussed the use of a condom before we met.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I wanted to have sex with someone that enjoyed having sex with me.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup, I left the hotel. I do not any expect any future contact with this person. He was a great kid and a good fuck.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I only told my friend who set up the craigslist ad. He was happy that I had nice sex.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual for both partners.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No. It was a nice hookup.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing about the hook up was the fact that I am 47 years old and had sex with a good looking 25 year old. The worst part was that he was leaving town the next morning. It was somewhat liberating for me to have a sexual hookup outside of my marriage. It was nice for a person to enjoy having sex with me. It made me feel sexy, which I haven’t felt for awhile.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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