Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
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I Was A Very Naughty “Little Sister” To A Frat
How long ago did this hookup happen? 28 yrs
How would you best classify this hookup? Booty Call
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? When I entered Northern Illinois University back in the mid 1980’s, I was shy and eager to find friends and acceptance in the college crowd. I had no interest in pledging a sorority, as attention from other girls wasn’t what I was looking for. Instead, I discovered the “Little Sister” program at one of the frat houses. My official duties as a Little Sister included helping to plan parties, run events, etc. But, my unofficial duties also included keeping the guys in the house sexually satisfied. I loved the attention and the desire the guys had for me. On any given day, I loved being hit on, knowing those guys wanted me, and ultimately having my pick of which guy would be taking me to his room for oral sex or more. Over the course of the first year, I had been with nearly every guy in the house at least once in some sexual way.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Whenever I was at the house (which seemed to be daily), I was being hit on by different guys. I loved the sexual energy and the way I felt knowing they wanted me. At first, I would just give a guy oral in his room. After doing this with several of the guys in the first month or two at school, I decided to go further and began having sex with them. None of them were really kinky, and all seemed to just enjoy oral and vaginal sex.
Although they all knew I was putting out for the house, they were always respectful of me, never abused me, and often even defended me if non-frat guys were inappropriate or were hitting on me at parties when I did not want them to.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Honestly, none. I wasn’t using condoms, but was on birth control pills. Thankfully, I never contracted any diseases.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was seeking the attention of guys. Being around the frat offered me that attention I was craving. I really liked knowing the guys wanted me sexually, and that I had the power to pick and choose who I was going to play with.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Alcohol was definitely involved. I enjoyed drinking, often to excess. I loved the party lifestyle at the frat and alcohol was always a big part of it.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After I played with each of the guys, there was never an expectation of being boyfriend/girlfriend.
Today, I am a high school teacher, a loving wife, and very involved with church and our local community. I actually look back very fondly on those days of unrestricted sex and the fun I had in college with the frat guys.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I had told my husband about this time in my life, but he is the only person who knows. To my surprise, he wasn’t upset about it at all. In fact, he enjoys hearing the details about my sexual past.
Other than my husband, no one would ever guess that I was once a very naughty Little Sister.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was definitely consensual on everyone’s part.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, I do not regret it at all. I enjoyed myself.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I was very shy entering college, and being a Little Sister helped me to break out of that shell, explore my own sexual desires and interests, and helped make me the person I am today.