What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 46
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Mgmt
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12-14
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3

I Was His Birthday Present

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met J & M a few years back on a hookup site. We never did get together for our 3some but we kept in touch via email. Then a few weeks ago she emailed asking if I want to meet in person. We met at a local pub. I liked them, there was no pressure. TBH I thought they just wanted to finally check me out.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had lunch, made jokes, they complimented me, my sense of humor, my looks, we sat for about 2 hours on the patio. I’d learned it was his bday. I asked if he was getting anything special for his bday. He answered hopefully his first threesome. They both had the biggest smirks. I said I noticed them eyeing my tits in my halter. We went to their house.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She and I were on their bed and we began to fondle and kiss. It was my first time with a woman, her lips were so soft. Then he joined in and the 3 of us french kissed. While he had his tongue down my throat, she pulled down my halter and began to suck on my tits, I moaned, he smiled. Then he sucked the other tit and put his hand in my panties. She took off of her shirt, she was a BBW so had huge boobs and nipples. he and I sucked on one each. I stood up and began to take my clothes off as they watched. He knelt down in front of me and began to eat my pussy. She joined in. They were very kind. She ate my pussy while I sucked his cock and vice versa. She continued to eat my pussy as he fucked her, then I had my turn. I mentioned I liked it rough so he fucked me hard in various positions missionary style. We had 2 on 1 oral sessions. He came on our faces a few times. It was hot. 5 hours later I had to go home. We’re meeting up again on Canada Day.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I enjoyed it. I have no expectations, if we meet again, great.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? A little bit

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I got to experience sex with another woman. No longer curious.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It had to end. I was having fun!

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Definitely. CS can be fun but everyone has to be on the same page. Also be respectful.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I was great they were a loving couple. I trusted them.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Not everyone is open to CS and thats fine. Do what makes you happy.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s great. It opens up communication.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!