What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 50’s
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? East Coast
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Businessman
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Prefer women while ocassionally bedding men. Just enjoy sex when it’s presented.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Thirty-ish
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
I Was Seduced By An Older Muscleman
How long ago did this hookup happen? decades ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a little taller than me, muscular, white, bronze skin, blue eyes, big chin, blonde Nordic hair, wearing 80’s Dolphin shorts and a low-hanging tank top. He had an enormous, charming smile. He was easily twenty to thirty years older than me.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was a late teen alone at a seaside carnival on a hot summer night. I felt someone walk by and first slide the back of their hand over my ass, and then again over my groin. I had a girlfriend by then but had been single for a month or so. Out of the blue and in the middle of the bustling crowd a third pass had run its hands over my butt. I whirled to see who it was and a bronzed, very handsome muscular blonde man in teeny dolphin shorts and tank top smiled and winked at me. Somehow in that instant, I was flattered and turned on. Now I look back on it and realize that I had been attracted to muscle men before that, but this was a pivotal moment in my sexual awakening. He approached me in that huge crowd with carnival stuff going on all around us and introduced himself. He asked me a few questions about how old I was that I can’t remember, then kind of boldly asked me if I wanted to “walk out into the dark part of the beach’ with him. I was lonely, horny, and turned on, and still a little nervous, but somehow I found myself saying yes.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?
I was incredibly nervous, but I went with him. We stopped at his car to get a blanket, then ventured away from the carnival, the fireworks, the sounds, the lights, and the crowd. He talked a lot while I said very little. My heart was pounding and I wondered why I was doing this while. I was still feeling horny and turned on by his face, his muscles, and his body. We walked so far away that the carnival was a small light and the surf pounding the beach was the loudest sound around us. We were utterly alone in the dark. He said I was incredibly handsome and reached out and fondled my member, which was half hard. I began to breathe hard, aroused and nervous simultaneously. He slid his hand into my shorts and began to jerk me off. I was so aroused as I stood there with his hand down my shorts. After a moment, he stood back and took his clothes off, and I could see his spectacular nude body in the scant light from the carnival. His cock was about eight inches long, with an 80’s bush. His penis bent upward like a banana. He told me to undress and I did. When I was totally naked, he came across the blanket and put my arms over his broad shoulders. We began to make out feverishly while his massive hands kneaded my ass cheeks as I had done to the girls I had been with.
He pushed me down onto the blanket and we writhed around nude along it, our boners grinding together in complete arousal. He moaned in my mouth while we kissed, and he hissed that he wanted to fuck me as soon as he saw me. He slid his mouth down over my heaving chest and stomach and began to give me head, different than the inexperienced teenage girls I’d been with before. He massaged my testicles as he went down on me with his mouth while somehow jerking me off as he ran his free hand over my chest. I opened my legs and cried a little. I was so turned on. I shot my semen into his mouth, but he kept going even after I had orgasmed. I began to undulate with his mouth on me, and I came into his mouth again. He lay there for a few moments. I was still gasping from my throes of ecstasy, before he slid up and whispered, “do the same for me.” So I did. I slid down, took his cock into my mouth, and did what he did to me, his muscular torso sliding under me as he told me beautiful things in the dark. Eventually, he shot his seed into my mouth and I swallowed his cum. We lay there nude, in the dark, kissing deeply, our respective semen in each other’s mouths as we fondled each other’s bodies.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We dressed in the dark and went back toward the carnival. I told him he was my first guy and he told me that he preferred younger men, and we exchanged phone numbers. We both went back to the carnival and our respective lives. I went home, went to bed, was still so aroused by the experience that I pleasured myself to satisfaction while thinking of the encounter.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, I was feeling lonely, Making new friends, Boredom, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I’ve shared this before with the other men I slept with, and a few women. Some women are deeply aroused by men with men, but many are not.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The utter unexpectedness and electricity of forbidden, taboo sex.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I felt strange being with a man but was too aroused to not enjoy it.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, it made me consider men as sex partners. I began to see them sexually, and it was a gateway encounter, if you will, with other men. I kept that side of me secret, even while I dated and bedded other women, but when a man hit on me after that, I would pursue the encounter, brief or longer-lasting.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I began to date him secretly and if given the opportunity, will post more about it later. This began a pattern of me dating women publicly while dating/seducing/seduced by men secretly. Thoroughly enjoyed the thrill of, upon occasion, dating a woman and a man at the same time.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I have always enjoyed casual sex.
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