What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Over 300
Ibiza: Part 1
How long ago did this hookup happen? About 10 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? During the summer at the end of our first year of uni, I got together with a few friends from school for a week’s holiday in Ibiza. We were out every night and I managed to hook up with a different girl each day that we were there. The first girl was part of a group from Essex we met on the beach the day we arrived, who we found out were staying in the same hotel as us. She was stunning – a slim, petite brunette in nothing but a tiny red bikini and shades. I made sure I got talking to her before any of the other guys got a chance to. Eventually, we arranged to meet up with the girls that night in a club.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? By the time we got to the club and met up with the girls, we’d had quite a lot to drink and it seemed they had as well. My girl was now in a little black dress. We were all over each other pretty quickly and after dancing for a while I asked if she wanted to head back to the hotel.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went to my room. I was sharing the room with one of my friends so I put the ‘do not disturb’ sign on the door and hoped he got the message. I grabbed a condom from my suitcase and led the girl out onto the balcony, where we started kissing and pretty soon her dress came off to reveal a black strapless bra and thong underneath. I got her up against the glass doors and soon had my hand inside her panties, and she reacted by shoving hers down my boxers and enthusiastically playing with my cock. The balcony wasn’t overlooked by any others and just overlooked the hotel grounds, which were empty at that time of night, so I decided to just go for it. I kept fingering her until she came, and had to stop her playing with my cock so I didn’t come too. Then we stripped completely, and I put the condom on, bent her over against the front wall of the balcony and fucked her from behind. I was so close to coming already that I had to take things slowly for a while, but eventually pounded her hard until I came inside her. We hurried back inside and she got dressed while I disposed of the condom. Then she kissed me goodnight and went back to her own room.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We hung out with the girl and her friends for the rest of the week but I didn’t hook up with her again as I was pursuing other girls. I didn’t keep in touch with her after we got home.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I briefly talked about it with my friends the next day. A couple of them had hooked up too and we shared stories and laughed about it.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The girl was gorgeous and doing it al fresco–like that was a massive turn on for both of us.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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