by Sunflower Days
Age: mid 30’s
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: Recovering Catholic
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 23
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? Before marriage
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Luke and I had been close for years. We were good friends that were part of a larger group of friends who had all paired off with significant others, as had we. It was more than obvious to us both that we were attracted to each other, but we were always in another relationship that prevented us from trying each other on for size. Of course, it did not prevent us from flirting and ‘accidentally’ being the last ones awake at every party so we could stay up all night talking and laying close enough to one another to hear our hearts beating fast with thoughts of throwing all caution to the wind. But up until this point, we had choked our desires.
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand that led to friends-with-benefits
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was New Year’s Eve. Luke and I were staying with mutual friends, who lived in a tropical paradise, on a trip that had been planned with our group of friends from home, but everyone else had bailed. A holiday and the tropics? You can see where this is headed. We spent the night on the beach with a bonfire, dancing to music that sounded like it came straight from the soundtrack of the movie of our lives and drinking countless tropical libations. There were other friends and people around all night long, but I don’t remember anything but Luke and me on that beach. We were drunk, but I could tell we were both very careful not to get wasted. One by one, our other friends exited to after parties, hook ups and pass outs. Once again, we were the last party people standing. These were roles we knew how to play when we were at home in our comfort zone. But there was something about the salty air, the fireworks, the palm trees, the start of a new year and the fact that we had been wanting to jump each other’s bones for years that made us very unsure of the next step.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We took a quiet walk (with the sights of New Year’s Eve exploding around us) to our friend’s little villa that we were staying in for the night. She was the last person we saw before we left the beach and by the looks of it, she wasn’t coming home until the next day at best. It was warm and we had been dancing so much. I felt happily covered in a thin layer of beach. We arrived at the villa, silently agreed to not turn on the lights and lit a few candles about the room. I went into the bathroom and to my surprise, Luke started to follow me and broke the silence with “You’re not going to take a shower, are you?” I shook my head ‘no’. “Good. I want to taste you.”
“Did he just say that?”
As I closed the bathroom door to have a moment alone, I wondered if he just said what I thought I heard? And if he did say what I thought I heard, what was he thinking? Were we just going to go for it after all this time? Was this the moment? Could I really do it? Should we really do it? Questions, questions, questions.
I exit the bathroom. The living room is glowing with candle light and I can see through the door that the bedroom is as well. Luke is laying across the bed, just watching me. It is warm in the villa and getting warmer with the candles and my blood pressure that is quickly rising. I walk around the bed and to the air conditioner unit and fiddle with it to turn it on. I finally get it and just as I do, I feel a hand on my leg, sliding up with so much confidence- feeling my inner thigh and immediately confirming what I am thinking and feeling by caressing my wet panties. There is no denying that I want him.
There are no words. There are hands everywhere feeling every inch. Pulling me down onto the bed, he plunges his face into my wet pussy, barely having time to pull my panties aside. He eats me with such hunger and the moment I remember I do not have to be quiet because we are alone, I let out a long, ‘holy shit I have wanted this forever’ moan that encourages him not to stop. It is hot and everything is a blur because we can’t touch each other enough. I stop myself from having an orgasm from his mouth and get him to take a break long enough to let me suck on his cock. And I do- suck and lick and think about how much I had wanted this for so long. The oral sex goes back and forth and back and forth and we are both edging and trying not to cum- to make this last. Finally, we meet face to face and look each other in the eyes and we kiss and we kiss and we can’t stop and we don’t want to stop and why would we stop? And his cock meets the opening of my super wet, swollen pussy and we both know what this will mean. We kiss again and again, both hesitant. But I’m so wet and he is so hard and with one little movement he starts to slide inside of me and just before he’s complete inside, we both freeze, knowing that we shouldn’t. Without words, we pull away and turn our bodies and he begins to eat me out again. This time with even more passion and determination and I am no match for him and I cum so hard-one of those orgasms where you see stars and just as the stars start to fade, he is over me, his hard cock in my face. And I give him what he wants and suck his cock until his cums in my mouth and I get to taste him for the first time and I gladly swallow, savoring the moment.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Oh. Yeah.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We both knew each other (and each other’s partners) well.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? We had to do it.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We were both drinking but were not wasted. Happily tipsy, I would say.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Sometimes one taste is enough and sometimes it leaves you wanting more. I wanted more. So did he. We spent the next 3 years hooking up whenever we found ourselves alone with one another. It was never planned, but it was always welcomed. In cars, in elevators, in stairwells, where ever we could sneak away from our friends and steal a moment. After that time passed, we both became involved with significant others and took some steps back from each other for the sake of safety. Now enough time has passed, we are truly just friends.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? We both wanted it, big time.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? The only thing I regret about this hook up is that we did not have intercourse. Damn, what was wrong with us? What were we waiting for?
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It was fantastic to finally release the sexual tension between the two of us and let our relationship grown beyond what it had. The worst part about it is that he was a hard one to get over, as I made the mistake of actually falling for him. This kept me from some other adventures that I wish I would have had, but my feelings for him prevented me from acting on them for a period of time.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? If you have major sexual tension with someone that you know will never go away, sometimes the best way to let it go is to get it on.
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