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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Florida
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Aviation
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? A few

I’ll Lick It Clean

How long ago did this hookup happen? Over a month ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We work together. He is 20 years older than me, athletic, tall, hazel eyes, lovely smile. I caught him looking at me the first time we met, he had a look on his face that read to me ” come fuck me” annndd truth is I wanted because I instantly felt attracted to him. At first, he looked like the tough type but once I got to know him I found he is the sweetest nicest man ever! Just like me. I did feel respect since he is married.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He texted me one morning and we began a conversation. It led to us talking about our sexual desires because why the hell not, I know what I want and I will get it. He said I had him at cowgirl.

He kept texting me every day after. We both engaged in sexting too, Then on a rainy day, he texted me “so it’s on days like this one that the guy gets some”I told him “yes! But I would every day if I could” he then asked me “if I told you to clean my gun in the truck what would you say to that?” I replied with ” I’ll make sure to lick it clean”. Since he is married he said he couldn’t cheat on his wife but a blowjob is something a man can’t say no to. So I took his word for it.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? So we met somewhere after work. I climbed in his truck and we parked on the side of a lonely road.
Now i love to take things nice and slow when it comes to giving a bj because it makes me feel good knowing im making him feel good. I started licking the tip then moved my tongue down to his balls kissing and licking them too then moved up still licking it all over making sure to get it all wet then finally putting that chunk of meat in my mouth and enjoying every bit of it. Just moving my head up and down on it… I could hear him moan and that kept me going at it repeating everything, around 10 to 15 min later he said ” don’t s-stop” and that’s when I knew I had to swallow and it was all good. Made sure to get every last drop of it.

He told me it all felt like he was in high school again. And we exchanged some other words. I asked him if he enjoyed it he said ‘ oh yeah! ‘ but I wasn’t truly satisfied with his answer. 🙁 later through text he told me it felt SOOO GOOD! And now I know he loves it when I do it to him.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He went home and so did I, It was stormy weather so just perfect!
Well, we see each other every day. And we hang out together, he cares for me and is sweet and nice.
More has happened between us

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Power / Dominance

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody. Truth is I don’t want anyone to know because talking about it will lead to thinking about it and that will make me want more and then my heart will skip a beat and next thing I know I have feelings for a married guy. I do not want to fall in love

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Making him feel good. I love making my partner feel GOOD! It turns me on knowing he is enjoying it.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? he is married!

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. I believe casual sex is a good experience! sex is good, Falling in love and getting your heart crushed sucks.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? You do you. Do what you like, just don’t regret it later.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Amazing!

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