What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 31
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Sydney
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Some
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How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? After my previous fuck buddy moved away from work, my current fuck buddy H has returned from his trip to Turkey. I wanted to meet up as soon as he returned, but couldn’t as I was on the afternoon shift at work. He is now permanently on nights 3 days a week (Thu-Sat) and works occasional weekdays. I wanted to see if he was free before he went to work as I had a birthday present for him and really wanted to see him.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I messaged him after I finished meeting up with and helping with a friend of mine for an upcoming assessment. I went into the city and wanted to see if he was free. He messaged me as soon as he woke up and told me to come as he needed to head to work in a couple of hours.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I met him at his place and he came and met me at the entrance. We briefly chatted to see how things were and he told me he is now permanently doing Thursday, Friday and Saturday Nights and has Sun – Wednesday free. We went to his place and then to his room and settled in.
As soon as I laid on his bed, we kissed and made out until our bottoms came off. He also had some music playing in the background. He penetrated me for a while and we kissed and hugged each other until I came. We missed each other since March this year and it had been a while. We fucked in missionary and in a spooning position until we changed positions so we could do anal. I laid on my belly on the bed. He had a numbing lotion to help me since it had been a long time since we did it. He went slow and it still hurt a bit, but after a while, it wasn’t so bad. He continued pumping in and out and then moments later, he pulled out and came on my ass.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He cleaned up afterward and then he showered. I laid in bed for a bit feeling really good. In my head, I didn’t want to leave, but I knew I needed to as he had to go to work. I showered briefly to clean myself up. We both dressed, and then I gave him his gift which was a bit small, but it was lucky I had a receipt so he could always exchange it. He was cool with it though.
We both hugged and kissed each other, and told him I would be in touch. Now I know his work hours and can message him around those hours to meet up.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Seeing him after 5 months. Feeling him again.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? We couldn’t fuck and hang out too long as he had to go to work.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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