What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 83
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Prov. R. I.
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Retired
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 35
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
In a cab
How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Various men and women and ages
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? On a taxi ride home. I started it. Nice looking dude and I asked if I could kiss him.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Waiting for a long traffic light I leaned over and kissed him. The light allowed only four cars to go so every time we stopped I rubbed his thigh and kissed him. It went on for six light changes. It was great and he kissed back. When we got to my apt. we parked and he got into the back seat with me. We hugged, kissed and I took his cock out, played till it got hard and gave him a bj. I took mine out and he went down on me. An excellent time.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Still feel good and we exchanged numbers for further meets. Looking forward to meeting again , hopefully in a bed.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Making new friends, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Loved the whole experience.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? In the back seat of a cab and not in bed.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not at all.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Looking to future meetings. More people
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? More people to act on their feelings.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it. Should be more.
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