Current location: NL
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Relationship status: Open relationship
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How long ago did this hookup happen? Last weekend
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? A sexy, blonde, broad shouldered German guy, whom I’ve known for a couple of months. We’ve met each other online and our conversations got more personal every time we spoke. Our first meeting was very comfortable, like we already knew each other for years! This was our second time meeting in real life, at his place. I was a little bit nervous, but mostly very excited. This meeting was planned a month in advance and I was full of anticipation. I would stay over for two days, due to the long distance.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After a long day of walking in nature we ended up laying on the couch, cuddling. There was tension in the air, but we both didn’t seem to dare to take initiative. After we ate something we decided to watch a movie together. All snuggled up on the couch and booze within short reach. He caressed my shoulder and arm and I did the same to his upper leg. Slowly he moved his hands towards my breasts and kept slightly touching them. The tension really was growing, just like it happened online. It was in the air so to say. Before turning on the movie I had a huge urge to make out with him, but the time just wasn’t right yet. He looked so attractive browsing through the movies he had.. So, while the movie played in the semi-dark, I emptied my shotglass full of liquor at once, turned around, grabbed his face with my right hand and started kissing him.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We kissed very passionately. He pressed my body firmly against his and made moaning sounds. He pulled me onto him and loosened my bra. He touched my breasts and at that point I suggested that we should go to the bed to be more comfortable.. I led him to the bedroom and pressed him onto the bed. I took off my sweater and my already loosened bra. The only thing left was my top. I got on top of him and we full-on made out. He asked if I would take my top off, which I did. He did as well. I loved to see how broad his shoulders really were. He got on top of me and we kept kissing. He went into my pants with his hand and started to finger me. I turned back on top of him and he enter me with his finger. Not short after I took off all of my clothes, left completely naked. I laid on my back and he pulled me with one arm in one motion towards him, which I thought was extremely sexy. He started kissing my neck, breasts and slowly went down and pleased me orally. He finger fucked me whilst doing it. After a while he came back up and I got on top of him. He was still half dressed but we dry fucked for a short while. I summed him to take off his pants and asked him what he wanted me to do. He wanted me to pleasure him with my mouth. I went beside the bed on my knees and gave him a blowjob. He was very good sized… After a while he suggested to grab a condom and asked if I was down for that, to which I answered with consent to this. He put on the condom and I pressed him on the bed and got on top. I helped him enter me and we did a few thrusts. However, this didn’t work out too well, he slipped out a few times. We tried missionary position as well, but this also caused some trouble. We decided to just lay down and cuddle for a while. Laying in his big arms, body to body really heated things up again. I gave him a handjob, with some suggestions from his side. It was incredibly hot to feel his pleasure, his shivers. And in the end his cum all over my hand.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I did not but he did.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condom.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Attraction, lust, being horny
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? A few shots of 15% alcohol for me and some beers for him.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We cuddled for a couple of HOURS. Which was amazingly nice. Everything felt very comfortable and relaxed. I don’t have any hopes for our future but I would enjoy to make it happen again.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, definitely.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was the amount of attraction I felt and the super relaxed atmosphere that was going on. We even laughed whilst going at it, which was very good. The worst was the penetration I would say.. Which didn’t work out so well. But to be honest, this didn’t really matter at that moment. It was my first time having casual sex and I never thought I would be doing this ever. But I loved it and it felt great.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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