What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? Africa
What country and/or city do you live in? South Africa
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Executive secretary
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Hindu
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? One was white, extremely tall, and very well built. The other 2 were black, and also very athletic. I was at a business conference in KZN for 2 nights. I never knew them, neither did I intend hooking up. I met them at a night event and they seemed very pleasant.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were dancing in a group of about 7 people. Each taking turns to enter the circle to do a solo. We were having tequila shots while dancing, and after about an hour of dancing decided to go to the lounge to relax a bit. At this time I was feeling slightly aroused from all the grinding and “accidental groping” from our dance session. No planning was involved I suppose it was a spontaneous thing that happened. While chatting in the lounge with these 3 guys they kept massaging my shoulders and touching my legs while talking. We chatted and drank for about an hour.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Around 11pm, I decided to retire to my room as I felt a bit intoxicated and wanted to have a shower as I felt sweaty from the heat and dancing. Wessel and Katlego decided they will walk me to my room as we all attended the same conference and shared the same hotel, James and Katlego shared a room so he decided to come with for a walk.
We got to my room, and at that stage I really just wanted to have a shower change into something comfortable and then go to bed. I actually don’t remember inviting them into my room. But realised that they were now seated on my bed watching a sports channel. I excused myself and took my nightie and went into the shower.
While in the shower, Katlego entered the bathroom wanting to use the toilet, I was quite shocked and taken aback when he entered. I immediately covered my clean shaven pussy and small boobs. His response through the clear glass shower was “WOW! Hot body you have there, may I join in the shower?”
Still shocked at this invasion of my privacy and covering my bits, he decided to start taking his clothes off and entered the shower. I was trembling with fear and excitement, and at the same time he took the sponge and started lathering my back. Then he used his hand to soap my body, touching me all over while doing so. Needless to say my body shocked me with its responses, by reacting to his touches, hardening my nipples. I could feel my clit throbbing and a warm feeling gushing between my legs. I looked down at his manhood and could see that he was now fully erect. My hands automatically reached down to touch him, as I did that his lips met my open mouth kissing me deeply, his tongue twirling in unison with mine.
My back was facing him as our lips were interlocked under the warm water, my back arched spontaneously and legs slightly apart, I felt his hard member press against my moist slippery entrance, and with one swift movement he entered me deeply almost lifting me off my feet. His eager fingers steadily strumming my clit and with my crevice filled to the hilt, it didn’t take me long to feel the most earth shattering orgasm build up and explode with me moaning quite loudly as I reached my climax.
Still convulsing with the climax running through my thighs, groin, and upper body, I could feel his member beginning to pulsate as he buried it deep in me, shooting his load into me. As I turned around to open the shower door, I noticed Willem and James also in the bathroom, completely naked and holding their members in their hands. I got out of the shower and as I reached for the towel, Willem lifted me off my feet, easily carrying my 1.56m 42kg petite torso onto his.
Facing him, my legs on either side of his massive torso, I felt him guide me onto his thick long member. Still in that position, he walked out of the bathroom with me impaled onto him, standing against the wall pounding me mercilessly. I could feel the cream from the previous encounter with Katlego burbling in me, offering added lubrication to make the pounding extremely pleasurable.
After I reached another orgasm, I was laid flat on my tummy on the large bed. Willem sat in front of me and I took his member into my tiny mouth, while I masturbate him and suckled on his bulbous head. I felt my legs being opened and in so doing I arched my hips, I felt a warm body covering me from above, his hand reaching underneath me to gently strum my clit while kissing my back. I felt his member enter my already wet and throbbing crevice. He gently stretched me in every direction with rhythmic long and deep strokes.
I sucked furiously on Willem’s member until he finally shot his load into my mouth. I’m not sure how long this went on after that, my inhibitions completely non existent. I lost count on orgasm 6.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I woke up with 3 naked men in my bed, at first I had mixed emotions of shame guilt, I went to have a shower, changed into a Jean and top with sneakers and then woke them up as I had to check out. We chatted for a bit and then went our separate ways.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Sterilization, Discussed STI testing history, Plan B / Emergency contraception
What were your motives for this hookup? Intoxication, Boredom, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Not at all
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave a clear ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My husband…
He was very surprised in a nice way
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Other
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Not sure, I guess learning that I’m multi orgasmic.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The guilt and shame I felt afterwards
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Ū
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I don’t particularly enjoy casual sex
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? No
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