by Rosario

Gender: Female
Age: 21
Race/ethnicity: Mexican
Location: Colima, Mexico
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Journalist
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 11
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Is That It?

How long ago did this hookup happen? A year ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met him at his book store, we went out with some friends to a party. I think he was like forty-something and i was about to celebrate my 20th birthday. 
He had a long curly white hair, we had the same height that is 5’6 ft even tough he’s kinda old he does not look like it at all. 
The first time i saw him i liked him, he has a thing that makes him interesting, i tought he was so smart and that was really attractive to me, besides i like to hook up with older guys so he was perfect to me.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was planning to hook up with him after the party. We were chilling at the party and we got so wasted so we agreed to leave and go to a motel, so we manage to finish at the same room in the motel and the when i tought we’d start the hook up, he told me: I want to sleep, goodnight. I thought: WHAAAAAT?

He woke me up next morning with a hugh and started to caress me then we started the hook up.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He gave me oral and it was SO GOOD, he took his time down there and i loved it, he was pretty excited and me too, we made a 69 and after that we start the penetration. 
He ask me to bend over and put himself behind me it felt so good at the beginning he had a good rhythm and then he just took his penis out after just five minutes. I was like: Is that it?
And the he just felt asleep again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used condom and no, we did not talk about that.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I liked the guy and i like one night stands

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No, were just hangover

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I haven’t seem him in a year and i hope not to see him again. After he woke up i asked him to drive me home.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? With the friends who went out with us. They told me to understand the little time he lasted, because of his age.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, for both

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Nope

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best was the oral sex, the worst was the sex per se and no it did not change the way i think about casual sex i still love it

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

For more by Rosario, check out  Voces de Una Vieja Indecente.

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