by Abby

Gender: Female
Age: 22
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: MA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Student
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 21
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

It Happened Again

How long ago did this hookup happen? Tonight

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Friends with benefits

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner and I have hooked up once before, but we have hung out without doing anything sexual since it happened, even though it usually led to us making out on the couch.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He came over and made me an amazing dinner (he’s an excellent cook) and then I started kissing him, this time wanting to go all the way again. I was so horny and had such a great time the last time we fucked.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started making out and touching on the couch, and then he askeno cod, “Do you want to make love with me?” in Spanish and I said yes. When he got on top of me he said the couch was uncomfortable and we agreed to move to the bedroom. We still had all of our clothes on, but they soon came off and we performed oral sex on each other. I started on top, then we switched to missionary with my legs on his shoulders, then both finished in doggy style. He is an amazing partner and doesn’t neglect any part of my body during foreplay. He is also very vocal during sex, and says things that boost my confidence.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? We both came while he was fucking me from behind with me bent over doggy style on the bed.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Neither of us have any STIs, and I take BC pills.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was very horny and really like my partner. I just got out of a long-term relationship and it ended badly, and he has been very supportive emotionally and logistically (he cooks for me a lot). He told me that he really wants to have a steady sexual relationship (as do I), but that he’ll wait until I’m ready and it doesn’t mess me up emotionally.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I had smoked some cannabis.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I’m sitting in my living room typing this while he sleeps in my bed! I’m going to join him soon. I’m very attracted to him; my lower half just kind of goes crazy when I’m close to him.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I don’t want to tell any of my friends about hooking up with him because they have advised to not get into anything for a while longer after the breakup.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes and yes.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The foreplay was the best part of this experience because he’s so amazing at driving me crazy. I definitely feel great about myself sexually after being with him!

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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