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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was on my vacation to Bali after a very stressful and depressing year. Before going on this vacation, I had a free hall pass from my husband. I had been using dating apps to hook up with people during my vacation, but on my last night, I decided to go clubbing alone at the biggest club in the area; I danced until 3 in the morning. There were some guys flirting with me, but I was not really interested. After a while, I was tipsy and tired and decided to leave. Before I left, there was a handsome Italian guy near the entrance. He was not very tall, but he was very muscular, tan, and had a box beard with dirty blonde hair.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He smiled at me, and we hit it off right away. He grabbed my waist and we start kissing. I could feel his six-pack abs and strong chest muscle with the palm of my hand. He grabbed my ass from the bottom of my mini skirt and got me really turned on. After a couple of minutes, he started to finger me on the dance floor. I was already so wet. So, I asked him if he wanted to bring it back to my villa. We immediately found a taxi outside the club. Even though it was only a 15-minute drive from the club to my place, we couldn’t keep our hands to ourselves. He kept fingering me so good that he had me soaking wet and moaning uncontrollably. Even the taxi driver told us to stop fucking in the back seat.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I blew him, but he was really hard already. He ate me out for a minute, but I was so wet and eager to feel him inside me. I then begged him to enter me. His penis was about 18cm long with no scent at all. He is so good at sex that I came many times before his first orgasm. I loved it the most when he fucked me in doggy style and pulled my hair and spanked my butt. We fucked three times, and I think we could have fucked more but it was 5 am already and we were tired. I called a taxi for him, and we followed each other on Instagram.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt refreshed and satisfied the next morning. I don’t think we would meet ever again, but if there is any chance, I would love to do it with him again. It was the best sex I ever had in my life, so far.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Before this hookup, I was really depressed due to work. But I feel more confident and I let loose and was more accepting and self-assured after this hookup. It is a truly healing experienced for me.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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