by Lilly

Gender: Female
Age: 29
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Location: London
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Photographer
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 22
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

It’s Always The Sweet Looking Ones

How long ago did this hookup happen? Eight months ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? fuck-buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met at the airport on the way to a music festival we were both working at. I was attracted to him instantly, which is quite rare for me. Huge blue eyes, amazing lips, very beautiful boy, wasn’t entirely sure he was straight, but I was in a relationship at the time so didn’t think about him too much, until I broke up with my boyfriend a couple of months later..

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After meeting, we messaged each other occasionally on Facebook, I was away for four months and he stayed in my head, so as soon as I got back to the UK I went to another music festival he was working at. On the day I arrived, i’d sprained my ankle and needed help with my bags to my accommodation, he was a real sweetie and helped me hobble across the site, made it pretty clear he was going to stick with me for the evening. So after a couple of hours joined at the hip, watching bands, talking about anything and everything I was pretty sure he was straight and kissed him.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We kissed for a long time, he had me pinned down on a sofa for a bit pressing his hard cock into me. He was an absolutely amazing kisser so I was content doing that for a bit, but also wanted to fuck him badly, we went into my room and the cold of mid winter and nerves got the better of him, so I went down on him and he came really fast, he wanted to go down on me but I’d been bleeding a couple of days before, so wouldn’t let him. After a couple of hours watching bands, we went to his room and made out and fucked for three hours solid, with a lot of ass smacking which was a first for me and I loved it as he wasn’t the kind of guy you’d expect that from, as I remember it he came twice again. I was a bit drunk so didn’t come.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used condoms, he was impressively vigilant about that. We discussed our most recent fucks..

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was newly single and incredibly attracted to him, first time I’d had such great sexual chemistry with someone for a while.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes I had a few beers and some cocodamol, he doesn’t drink, but had been up all the previous night on MDMA.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was very happy. The following day we had another three hours of sex, with oral, we both came. The day we left the festival and went for a drive together and talked deliriously on little sleep for hours, we agreed we’d carry on seeing each other. As the weeks and months rolled on, my feelings for him went up and down, I have a young son and he made it clear he didn’t want an exclusive relationship and be too much a part of my sons life, which suited me fine to begin with as we were both travelling a fair amount and absolutely did not want to be tied down in a long distance relationship. At about four months in, I had a little freak out, thinking I wanted to fall in love, but knowing I couldn’t fall for him, so tried to finish it, then realised what we had was a really healthy, fun, stress free thing. Sadly as we were looking forward to a long hot summer of no strings fun, he very suddenly had to leave the country.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Most my friends.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Absolutely

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No regrets.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It was an entirely new experience for me, after the first weekend we rarely had penetrative sex again, but his kisses and complete intensity somehow left me feeling satisfied, I could go two, three weeks without seeing him or anyone else again, but when we did we would spend hours kissing and touching, stroking, fingering, biting and smacking, one time he spent about three hours eating me out..The worst was a couple times I  found him to be a bit self absorbed, our last couple of encounters was me giving him two blow jobs in a row and him not really considering me so much, but I loved sucking him off, his orgasms would last five minutes and it got me very wet to watch him come, he was clever and kind of became my master, dominating me, giving me a bit of pain, teasing me, but with deep and genuine affection, he always left me wanting him more. He was extremely sensitive which was maybe part of the reason we didn’t have sex much after, but we both adapted to his ways pretty quickly, I really enjoyed my time with him and grateful for the very different sexual enjoyment we got from one another.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? His kisses, bites, dirty talk and smacking are most definitely missed. I regret we didn’t get a long goodbye fuck, like our first.

 

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