by Joey

Gender: Male
Age: 37
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Alaska
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Designer
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Raised protestant
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 22
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

It’s Pat

How long ago did this hookup happen? 15 years

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was living in Colorado at the time and getting on a phone chat/personals line.  Having had no luck meeting anyone at all I was surprised when a very straight forward message was left for me along with a number.  Calling the number a woman named Pat told me she was looking for subs to have her way with.  I don’t remember much of the conversation, but we made arrangements to meet that night and she ended the call by telling me “and don’t jerk off, that cum belongs to me.”  I was nervous but incredibly horny and hit the road.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After arriving in her town, I called from a grocery store pay phone letting her know I had arrived.  She was surprised that I had actually shown up and gave me directions to her house.  I was to park across the street, go through a gate with an arbor and around to the back of the house where she would meet me.  It was well after dark at this point and when I found the house no lights were on inside.  I cautiously made my way past the overgrown arbor and along a step stone path along the side of the house almost falling in the dark at one point.  She was standing on the back step and greeted me before I saw her in the darkness.  Inviting me into the backroom she explained that her sister, who didn’t approve of her actions, was inside and that one of her regular playmates had just left.  We talked a little more before it began.  I explained that I hadn’t had a dom-sub experience before and she told me I wasn’t hanging out in the right circles.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Pat was sitting on a day bed set up in the dark room at the back of the house, only a tiny bit of moonlight provided any illumination.  She instructed me to drop my pants and proceeded to wrap pantyhose tightly around the base of my already erect cock and underneath my balls.  After a few wraps she put the other end of the pantyhose in my mouth and instructed me to keep it tight.  I was now rock hard, with my balls squeezed tight and exposed.  I was not permitted to cum until she said I could and that if I felt like I was close to tell her so she could stop.  She wanted my cum in her ass. As I stood there fully erect she began to suck and use my cock to fuck her throat.  She would stop and slap my cock then my balls, harder and harder until she could tell from my wincing that the pain was too much.  When she felt that the pantyhose was too slack she would command “tighten it!” and I would jerk my head upward, the nylons between my teeth.  This cycle went on for ten to fifteen minutes before she released me from the nylon binding and instructed me to lick her feet.  I made my way onto the bed and did as instructed.  Not long after, my wrists were bound to the bedposts by ties that were already in place.  Now laying on my back helplessly, Pat lathered up my cock with lube, straddled me, and took my cock into her ass for my first anal experience.  All I could do was focus on not cumming, as she instructed.  Coming close a few times, she would stop momentarily but soon start moving up and down on my shaft again.  She told me I had “porn star cock” and with that I couldn’t hold out any longer, exploding against her objections.  She laid down beside me and asked if I wanted to go again.  I didn’t think that I could, but she wasn’t interested in untying me, instead playing with my cock until it became hard again.  She rode me for another 10 or so minutes until I wasn’t able to hold back and shot my load into her ass for a second time.  I was untied, thanked and sent on my way.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I came twice

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None, I was scared for being so foolish afterward.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Curious and horny

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? None

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt like I had done something quite stupid, but was glad I had stepped out of my comfort zone and tried something new and secretive.  Because it was so dark, I have wondered if Pat was actually a tranny or even a guy, and because I was so horny that I trusted that she was the female she was presenting herself as.  The irony of this Pat and the “It’s Pat” SNL skits always comes to mind.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one ever.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I found that I really enjoy a partner that is in control, knows what they want and uses me for their pleasure.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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