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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 55
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? atlanta ga
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? business executive
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? around 75
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Jail Indoctrination

How long ago did this hookup happen? about 35 years ago-

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? captive audience

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Never met the guy before, he was a biker type, about 6’2 and 230lbs. Met him in jail

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was arrested for being drunk in a public space, I was 20 and stupid. It was a small town outside of atlanta and I got a little rowdy, so the cop put me in jail. Since it was a holiday weekend I would probably have to stay for about 5 days. There was only one other guy in the cell, a biker dude. I came in and sat down and we started talking. Then he walked over to me and unzipped his pants and said it was time to pay the tax for being in his cell. I laughed thinking he was joking and said fuck you. He slapped me so hard my head hit the wall. “Want more?” he said. No I did not. I started sucking that large cock, like you see in porno movies.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I sucked him for about 5 mins- he said he was coming, and for me not to spill any. I didn’t- it took some effort but I swallowed all of it. He went to his bunk and went to sleep. The next night I was expecting more of the same but he went to sleep. But sometime during the night I felt him dragging me out of bed and pulling my shorts off. “bend over,” he told me- so I did- and he stuck that big cock in my ass. Hurt like hell the first time. It became blowjobs in the morning and ass-fucking at night- at least it didn’t hurt as much as my ass was getting used to it. On my last night there he had a surprised for me- after he fucked me one of the guards came in the cell and fucked me too, I got out the next day- and kept my mouth shut.
Now here’s the funny part- I started going to biker bars and rough gay bars looking for hook ups. I found out that the rough domination turned me on, and it still does, I’ll buy a couple of drinks for a guy I’ve picked out, and we’ll go in the bathroom and I’ll blow him, or the parking lot and get screwed. One guy stripped me naked and invited his buddies into the van one or two at a time and used me- got fucked by 4 guys total and sucked 3 others. It’s on X-tube out there somewhere- saw it once.
I’m now 55 – and had many great times with women- I have a girlfriend now. But every now and then I get the urge and give into it. Like I did last night- saw a big biker dude coming out of Walmart parked near me as I was going in. I licked my lips at him- long story short he took me behind the building and fucked me against the wall all the while verbally abusing me – it was great.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Covered in the 2nd paragraph

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? I didn’t want it but was unable to stop it

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Not at all

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave a clear ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? nobody

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Learned about my desires

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Getting slapped extremely hard

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? it did at the time

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I’ve learned to accept my bisexuality- as well as appreciate a nice hard cock

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s very helpful to learn others have had similar experiences

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!