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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Germany
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Not satisfied
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Roughly 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Japan

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 Day

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a Japanese Girl, black hair, nice small eyes and smaller than me. She was roughly 1.65m and 75kg. I met her in a small bar. I had already had a few beers when she came in with her girl.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She came in and directly took a seat next to me. She started the conversation. At first, she was not attractive to me but a few beers later my mind changed. She could not speak very good English and I was not Japanese. But she used google translator to ask if we should go to my hotel room.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?

We went to my hotel room. We directly started to kiss and got our clothes off. At first, I kissed her whole body and touched her everywhere very softly. Then I started to lick her pussy. She was moaning and I felt that she liked it. A few minutes later I lay on my back and she started to kiss my body and ended up with my dick in her mouth. After that, we tried all kinds of positions and during fucking her from behind doggy style, I slowly put my finger in her ass. She was surprised but liked it. In the between I licked her pussy and asshole. In the end, she has had two orgasms but I didn’t have one. After that, she suddenly stood up, taking her clothes on and suck my dick again but quitted before I came. At last, she smiled at me and gone.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I slept. The day after I wanted to have sex with her again. I wrote to her but got no answer yet.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, To feel better about myself, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? To have wild sex with an unknown person.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? no

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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