What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Minneapolis
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Management
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 23
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Joining a Couple
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Attractive in the couple-next-door sense. Both very clean, fun, open to trying anything. He is about 5’11, stocky build but muscular. Trimmed and well-groomed. About 6.5 inches but very thick. She is 5’9, curvy, fantastic breasts and smooth pussy.
They had placed an ad looking for a bisexual third to experience for the first time. We exchanged maybe three emails before deciding to commit to meeting and I headed over that night. It was about a 30 minute drive and I blared music the whole time to distract myself. I was very excited going into it. I’ve had great threesomes in the past, and not so great. There’s no telling what it will be like when you start out.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I rang the bell and she met me at the door. He had specified a couple things in our messaging: they weren’t looking for any small-talk. Pretty much DTF, cum and go-type scenario. Which is all well and good of course. That being said, I find it impossible not to form some kind of connection. So we exchanged pleasantries as she took me downstairs to their bedroom. They had a nice suburban home with pets and it made me feel quite relaxed. He was in the bedroom already. They both laid on the bed and I took off my shoes and coat and sat at the end of the bed and we chatted for about 10 minutes. They were very cool, easy to talk to, and we had no awkward pausing in our conversation. I asked what got them into a threesome, and what kind of man she was looking for. She gave the right answer (a man like her boyfriend, good girl!) but I could tell by the way she was looking at me that she was interested in me as well. I’m about 6’1, not extremely athletic but the better side of average-build. A lot more hair than her boyfriend, but very well-trimmed as well. He started to take her shirt and bra off as we spoke, and I took that as my cue to get closer.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was the most relaxed sexual experience I had ever had. They pulled me between them and undressed me and both went right for my cock. I felt her up and jerked him off while they shared me. She went down on him and I ate her out. I told him he was a very lucky man, and then her and I went down on him together. After that, I had to comment that she was also very lucky: as described, he was thick and it was a lot of fun to suck on him. There was a lot of play going on – every match-up and act possible between three people. It was all very fluid. At one point he left us alone to check on the dog, and the fact that he trusted me with her made it all the hotter. When he returned she climbed on top of me and began fucking me bareback (I was sure they would want a condom – wow!) while she deepthroated him. He knelt as she sucked on him and I fucked her doggystyle and made out with him. We switched up positions a lot and he came once in her while I still hadn’t yet. Finally, they made out while she jerked me off. It was taking awhile to get me off, and he got his second wind and began to fuck her doggy while she blew me. He had warned me that I couldn’t cum in her mouth, so I warned her and she let me blow a huge load on her tits while she moaned from getting fucked by her boyfriend. I was licking her clit while he fucked her, and when he came it began to pour out onto my tongue. Unexpected and insanely hot. Normally I can’t handle a dude’s cum, but licking it out of her pussy was an experience like no other. We got dressed immediately after and bid adieus.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Very surreal. Like I said, you never know how these will turn out. I lucked out and happened to find a very sane, very fun couple who had no hangups or crazy expectations. We met up again about a month later, and have agreed to get together a third time when our personal lives calm down.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. I’m not like that and we all agreed it would be better for our professional lives to keep it secret.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The ease of the whole experience. How into it they both were and how we connected so well physically.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing bad happened, though I hope in the future we can double penetration. That’s been on my list for awhile, but with his thickness and my own girth I don’t know if she can handle it.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes – it’s made me more confident and convinced me that casual sex can be both stimulating and beneficial to couples. They are both very clearly in love, and I’ve learned are engaged as well, and bringing me into their bedroom has not caused any conflict.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it. I appreciate folks coming together to reveal both sides of casual hookups – there is plenty of good, and can be some negative aspects. It’s important for people to form an idea of how to improve their casual sex lives – both finding ways to safely enhance it, while avoiding some ugly situations.
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