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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Dublin
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Waitress
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Curious, inexperienced, seeking more, kinky, dirty talk.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Just your average ONS

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 week ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? From what I saw the next morning…tall, dark, well-built, hirsute. As to personality and demeanour, somewhat lacking to say the least.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? An unexpected one night stand, I was so drunk I was anyones. Mortifying enough to admit I went home within 10 minutes of meeting him. I hadn’t been with anyone in so long – almost a year – that it was bound to happen. We went back to his place.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got back to his and had sex twice that night. The first time was a complete blur I was so out of it. I remember flashes, flashes of me acting like a porn star. Rimming, missionary, finger in his asshole, sucking him off – lots of sloppy head. All for him and minimal foreplay for him. Whether it was a combination of it being so long and not being turned on, he was pounding me and talking dirty, which I usually LOVE, but when done right. It was all for him. It really turns me on when I can tell guys are going crazy about how crazy you’re going – there was none of this.

I think he came the first time. And I’m pretty sure the second time he had sex with me without a condom. I consented in so far as I could in my state at the time.

We passed out and he tried to initiate sex the next morning. He kicked me out when I said no without a condom in the sober light of day.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After another one night stand, I see why they’re totally pointless. Anonymous sex without any of the intimacy, crazy passion giving you that amazing climax. I’m all for casual sex, if it benefits both people. To date I’m yet to find that crazy amazing random hook-up.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication

How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I was too out of it / passed out / asleep and therefore unable to give consent

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Friends – they could see the funny side

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Reminded me why I’m not a ONS kinda gal

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I’m ignoring the fact that we possibly had unprotected sex.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? In a way. I know more about myself and what I like / want.

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Fairly negative

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