What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Dallas
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? IT
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Risk Taker
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? about 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
She Just Wanted to Please Me
How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 yeara go
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was a mid level manager at a grocery store at that time and she was just an employee that would often close the store with me. “A” was 5 years older than me; she was white with very pale skin and was about 4’11, petite, and had these huge 34DDs that made a lot of the guy drool. She would always find ways to spark conversations with me but I took it as her being very playful. That was until she made her innuendos around me very obvious but I was conflicted as I was trying to make it work with my current girlfriend who I though I was going to marry one day; looking back, I should have ended it and enjoyed more girls.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Like I said we would work late up until 1 am most days so we found ourselves talking to one another bout our lives. I think “A” saw me being unhappy with my girlfriend and it gave her a way in to make her move. We started texting more and more and then things went from innocent to playful to full-on sexual. I met up with her one day and her friends for some drinks and she was on me right away. I was trying to hold back but as she walked me to my car we began to make out and I got my hands all over her body. The next week she wanted to meet after work to hook up but I was hesitant and tried to make the excuse that I didn’t have condoms, to which “A” replied…. “well, I have a mouth”….I was hooked and made my excuses to sneak out with her.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We met down the street and got in her car since I had a two seater. We drove to a semi-built neighborhood and found a secluded area and hopped into the back seat. Immediately we were all over one another and I began to pull off her top and played with her huge breasts which were amazing! As I kissed her neck and breast she began to reach for my cock and began to stroke it. She went right to work and gave me one of the best blowjobs of my life. I fee like people say that a lot but this girl acted like she was in a porno. There was saliva, and choking and deep throating as she licked my balls – it drove me crazy. I pulled back and pinned her back and began to finger her, she came almost immediately and squirted all over my hand. At this point I could only think about being inside her and feeling tearing her apart….but I had no condoms. “A” didn’t miss a beat and just said I could put it in her ass. I had only done this once so I jumped at the chance. She spit on my cock and sucked it for a bit then turned around and waited for me to enter her. It began slow and as she moaned more and more I became even harder and I felt her spread open. She began to thrust back onto me and I went deeper and harder until I filled her nice white ass. We laid there for a bit and laughed and she told me that we needed to do this again for sure. My cock said yes but my head wasn’t sure what to think anymore.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Initially on the way home I was on cloud nine and could not stop replying the night. The next day I felt the Catholic guilt (even though I don’t follow the religion) due to cheating even though I was unhappy and wanted out of my relationship. I just wanted to see what more I could feel physically with “A” . She was down for everything and I needed it after not having sex for a few months due to my prude ex.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, butt stuff lol
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To cheer myself up, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Some friends like most young dumb boys do.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? She was a guy’s dream, the girl that you see in pornos and think no real world girl would do that.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That I didn’t get a room.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. My ex was a Catholic prude that wanted to be a “good Catholic” and tried to brainwwash me to be the same. After “A” I knew I needed sex to be happy , not so much as a form of validation but in a sense of physical need. It helped me learn I needed a girl with my same sex drive.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? This would not be the only hook up and I may write more here if I have the time.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It made me realize I need sex in relationships or I would not be happy. It also made me less shy about telling my partner what I wanted.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love it. I think my fiancé might love it but it’s my thing for now. Besides she benefits from this indirectly as I have surprised her with sex a few times due to these stories.
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