by Nina

Gender: Female
Age: 19
Race/ethnicity: Mexican
Current location: Mexico
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0


How long ago did this hookup happen? Last weekend

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck-buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Imagine him like this… not very tall, blonde, good looking guy.
I just knew him a week ago on my birthday (October 24th), a friend of mine (let’s name her Lily) introduced him to me as a friend (Mike) she liked (she didn’t say that in front of him, of course).
Being honest, I was not attracted to him the very first time I saw him, I mean, I notice that he was a good looking man, but I wasn’t very interested (at the beginning).

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? First, I want to mention that a friend (pseudonym: Lily), kissed the guy that I had a crush on the day of my birthday but it wasn’t a big deal for me, I mean, I didn’t like him. But what made me got angry was the fact that after that, she came to me and the first thing she said to me was “I swear I didn’t kiss him” (haha silly girl).

The next weekend Mike called me (I didn’t know how he got my phone number) inviting me to his apartment and I accepted.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got to his apartment with some friends and started to play drinking games. At the end I entered to his room and lay on his bed, then he was also laying next to me. We started to kiss, bite our necks, my nipples. He put two of his fingers inside of me, outside, inside, outside, inside… and then I began to give him a blow job. After that we fucked and it was amazing, it was my first time doing it even though I already had a lot of experience doing oral sex I waited to the perfect guy, and I’m not talking about the one I love, oh no, no, no. I was waiting for the man that didn’t know mostly of my friends (he was older), that didn’t make it awkward after sex, and the most important thing, the one that I didn’t share feelings with.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? We both had orgasms, amazing orgasms.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We obviously used condoms.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was very attracted to him.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We didn’t drink a lot of alcohol, but we were in a funny mood.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup we were very satisfied, we both said that it was the beginning of a lot.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? None

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was a wanted experience for both.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, I don’t regret this hookup

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? BEST: Doing the traditional missionary at the end.
WORST: Doing anal sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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