What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Atlanta Georgia
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Hairstylist
What’s your current relationship status? Sexless marriage HELL
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Bi curious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 45+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
How long ago did this hookup happen? A month
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I placed a personal ad looking for a discreet FWB situation. He answered my ad. Oh, my HOTTIE!!! He sent me pics and I was in just immediately. Couldn’t wait to see him IRL
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We chatted on Kik app. And he asked what I was doing that night . I was going to be at a bar for karaoke so he rode his motorcycle the 2 HOURS to meet me. I saw him walk in and there were sparks immediately. We sat at a table chatting for a bit, legs touching, hands touching, then he said let’s go outside so we can hear and talk more . We took my minivan and rode around talking. I stopped at a parking lot . He went for a kiss that made me melt. We finally found a new home construction site , pulled into the driveway and got in the backseat of my van.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He was so hot and hard and I was wet and ready. He was kissing me all over then he said he was going to eat my pussy until I begged him to stop. He can sure eat pussy good !!! Mmm Mmm!!
He turned me over and ate me from behind, kissing my ass and playing with me until I came 3 times. Then he rubbed his hard cock between my ass cheeks and went balls deep in my pussy with such force it took my breath. He pounded my pussy hard, reached around playing with my nipples as I rubbed my clit and came again. He then sat down and had me get on his cock and ride it. He was still hard as steel even though he came 2 times already. Finally, he came on my ass then ate my pussy some more . I lost count of how many times. I came. He was so sweaty and hot and so was I. He said he had never been with a woman older like me – I am 50, he is 32 . He said babe, “You are sexy as fuck.” I wanna fuck you forever!! I said that was ok by me. We are both married, live 2 HOURS apart but in the month since this first hookup, he has been down 2 to 3 times a week. We have rented a hotel a few times and gotten nasty in my hair salon. I can’t wait til next time !!
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Horny as fuck and wanting him every day!! We know it’s a booty call thing and as long as we are enjoying our sexy times, we will continue to fuck.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), To feel more desirable, Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best girlfriend !! She encouraged me to place the ad. And is jealous of all the hot sex I am having.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The Random stranger thing was exciting. I had never dreamed of having sex with someone off Craigslist but damn I am glad I did.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not being closer in location, can’t get together as often as I would love.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It made me realize I am not dead and makes me horny as fuck thinking about getting with him again. He is on his way when he gets off work this morning at 7 am. So by 9, I will be fucking him again.
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I am glad that I found him to play with sexually he is a little kinky which I have never been. But he has me wanting to try anything that makes is feel good. I even tried anal with him and I can’t wait to again. Mmm Mmm.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is more available now with the internet. It shouldn’t be a bad thing, sex is a pleasurable thing and everyone should enjoy it without being criticised or slut shamed. Fucking makes you feel good!!!
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It is fucking awesome!!!
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