What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 58
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Portland
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Public Relations
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Always been curious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was at a party of mutual friends and others. I had just met Bill, and we chatted about marijuana and its legalization, pros and cons, etc. Bill is middle aged (maybe 50), average height and weight, light beard and short hair, with piercing blue eyes, and a way with words. I enjoyed our conversation.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Bill mentioned that he grew his own pot, and asked if I’d be interested in trying some. It had been 20 years since I’d smoked weed, but I was intrigued by his description and said yes I would. He said he didn’t have any at the party, but if I wanted, I could follow him to his place in the country about 30 minutes away. We drove to his place, and he showed me his grow operation (impressive), then filled a bowl from his stash and passed it to me. One bowl and I was STONED, I mean really stoned. We chatted a while longer, and Bill asked if I’d like to come in the house. He said had a movie he thought I might like. Inside, he led me to a back room that had a bed and a large screen TV. I sat on the bed, and Bill said he made a movie about a year ago with his then girlfriend and another guy and asked if I would be offended if he showed it. I admit I was kind of turned on by the idea, so sure, let’s see it. In the movie, Bill’s girlfriend (about 35, blonde, nice body and tits) was going down on a guy. It looked like they were in a motel room. Bill mentioned that he was filming them, that he really liked to film himself and others. In a short while, the girlfriend moved from sucking this guy’s cock to mounting his face while reaching down to rub his cock. It was then that Bill entered the frame, got between the guy’s legs, and started to suck him off. I looked at Bill sitting next to me on the bed, and said, “That’s impressive”. He just looked at me for a few seconds, then slid around behind me.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Bill began to massage my neck and shoulders from behind. He asked if I liked his movie, and I said yes. He reached around my face and asked if I’d like to try a “popper,” holding a small bottle in front of my nose. I inhaled deeply in both nostrils and felt my heart begin to pound, and my inhibitions slip away. I heard him inhale too, then reach around to my chest and begin to gently rub my nipples through my shirt. I leaned back into him, offering him an easier reach to my chest. My head was light from the weed and poppers, and I was becoming incredibly aroused by him touching me. His hands moved down and began to rub my stomach, then further down to my hard on, now quite visible. Then he stopped, moved around in front of me and said, “I’d like to show you another movie.” This movie was of him, naked on his back and being fucked by one younger guy, while he sucked another younger guys cock. I watched with interest, Bill was getting fucked hard, and loving it. I turned, looked at Bill and smiled. Bill was now naked. He moved in front of me, pulled me gently off the bed, unbuttoned my shirt and pants, sliding them off and to the floor. His hands slid down my body and wrapped my dick and balls, gently teasing. He leaned close to my ear and whispered, “Do you like what you see?” I said I liked both the movie and the situation. With that, he bent and began kissing and sucking on my nipples, sending little pleasure waves to my brain. I reached out and pulled him close, running my hands down his back to his ass, and kneading his cheeks around and open and closed. Bill moaned softly and vigorously sucked my nipples until they were hard and pert. God, what a pleasurable thing. My cock was huge, which was a direct result of this nipple play. Bill pushed me back on the bed and moved between my legs. He softly lapped his tongue around the head of my dick, then almost violently pushed it in his mouth to the hilt, hitting the back of his throat. He gobbled that dick like it was his last meal. It was almost a visual overload, with Bill’s slurping and sucking, and behind him the video playing of him being fucked by two guys. I told Bill to move over my head. I wanted to taste and suck him while he did the same to me. We carried on this way for who knows how long. Suddenly, Bill got up, went to the dresser, and pulled out some lube. He sat down on my stomach, grabbed my face, leaned in close and said he wanted me to fuck him hard, like in the movie. He kissed me, long and passionately. Then, he rolled a condom on my dick, lubed his hole, and mounted my cock while sitting on me. Oh, I fucked him alright. I fucked him on my back. I rolled him over and fucked him from the top, I bent him over the bed and fucked him from the rear with a reach around for good measure. He seemed to like it the harder the better. I was plunging into him with such rhythm and power that I was worried I might injure him. Finally, with him on top riding my dick for all he was worth, he erupted so hard that he covered my chin and chest with thick gobs of creamy cum. I exploded into his ass like a hose, shaking my entire body like I was being touched with open wires. I have never felt that kind of intense pleasure. It was pure and primal and unbelievable. I pulled out of Bill, then slid down under him and swallowed his spent cock, milking it for any last drop. We lay there for the next 30 minutes, too spent to do much more than listen to Bill getting fucked by two guys on the TV.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Bill and I showered together, then I got dressed and left. We exchanged phone numbers, but I haven’t called him and he hasn’t called me. I will always remember this. It was amazing.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish, Poppers (Amyl Nitrate)
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish, Poppers (Amyl Nitrate)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Haven’t talked to anyone
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? This was the most intense, physically enjoyable thing I’ve ever done. Part of it was that it was not planned and totally unexpected, which makes the encounter even more satisfying.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I must say, I’d like to do it again with Bill. He was awesome.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? This is a great site. Keep it up.
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