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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Germany
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? promiscuous
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 24
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3

Kinky Surprise

How long ago did this hookup happen? ca. 3 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? L. was a student from South Korea. She was doing a semester abroad. We were in the same study group.
L. is asian, small, skinny, flat breasts. Long black hair and pale skin. She was not what I consider to be pretty.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were both students and in the same study group. I got a bit fascinated by her for the simple stupid reason that she is asian. I know that really sounds dumb and maybe even racist, but I had never had sex with someone not white at that time and wanted that kind of experience. I started fantasizing about her.
L. gave me the impression that she was rather conservative and not very open when it comes to sex. But since my level of interest in her was so high, I gave it a go anyway.

Since I had enough opportunity to spend time with her, I got to know her a bit better. Her German was far from perfect, so it always took us a bit more time to communicate.
I changed my idea a bit of how good my chances were to have an affair with L. She seemed to be quite interested. She was interested in classical music, so I asked her to visit the opera with me. She agreed.

After the opera, I took her to a bar, and we had a drink. I seized the opportunity and kissed her, fully expecting to be rejected. The opposite was the case, we kissed but then said goodbye. I needed another opportunity.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The opportunity arose in the form of some paper she had to write. I offered my help, asking her to come to my place. There, we did a bit more than just working on our studies. Of course, we chatted and had a coffee, kissed again.

L. had fully understood what my real intentions were when I had invited her to my place. To my surprise, it did not take long until we were both naked. I had expected pretty bland sex with her, seeing her as a relatively boring, conservative person.My plan had been to not ask her for anything sexually that she may find offensive. Boy, was I wrong! She immediately went for my penis, putting it in her mouth and giving me a very, almost too, sweet blowjob. Her saliva or her tongue tickled me until I could almost not bear it anymore, It was very intense and completely unexpected.

I was in for more surprises. I watched her lick my cock, going down to my balls, licking them, putting them into her mouth. It went on, and suddenly I could feel her mouth on my anus! That was utterly shocking, even to me. I felt embarrassed, wondering how clean my poohole really was. She did not seem to care. I had always thought that rimming is something that only men do. L. is the only woman who has ever done this to me. It was bizarre. I had thought she would be boring in bed, and then this.

You could say that L. had a fetish for licking. She licked my chest, my ears and even my armpits. Really strange. But L. did not only love to lick, she also wanted to be licked. So I licked her small titties, her pussy, her toes. her anus.

The sex with L. turned out to be really fun. We met up quite a few times over the next 3 months, and I would say it was more of a fuck buddy relationship than a love affair. She was totally into it. L. told me that her life at home was pretty restricted when it came to sex. She had very strict parents. (And seemed to be a pretty strict person herself outside the bed) I never knew how far I could go with her, always feared offending her with my sexual desires. The communication was not good.

Every time we had sex L. would suck my dick. She seemed to love that and it was always pretty intense. I tried to avoid cumming inside her mouth, thinking she would find that gross. But it happened. Again a surprise for me, L. laughed, and licked the sperm off my penis and around her lips.

Unfortunately, this happened towards the end of our relationship, so we did not repeat this. If I would have known that she would swallow sperm, I would have cummed inside her mouth way more often.

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How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? When the semester was over, L. returned home and I have not heard of her ever since. I think we both just wanted sex. We are very different personalities and I think neither of us was really interested in a relationship.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Yeah, I guess I have bragged on about this amongst my male friends.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? the blowjobs

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That I was so timid and always concerned to not offend her, so I did not suggest more sexual techniques. Maybe she would have consented to anal. She sure loved to get rimmed!

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I have learned that it pays off to be open about your sexual desires and things you want to try. I have learned that I can hook up with conservative girls.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I love casual sex and want to have it all the time! The more women, the better!

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